Hey guys listen I met a this girl at a party talked to her briefly and did pretty good and ended up getting her number. She's kinda wifey material. anyways i texted her a few days after and began talking (through texts only) i ended up telling her to go on a date and she accepted. BUT the days shes free im not and like wise. sooooo we keep postponing and NOW this weekend im most likely going to see her for our date.

Heres the problem:

I have been texting her maybe every 3 or 2 days for two weeks now saying wats up and wat shes up too and bla bla bla. so far this whole time i have been the one to always text her and she never does. maybe once or twice throughout the whole two weeks. Another thing is that i feel like the tension isnt there as much because when we talk we talk very little or she takes a long time to answer. i know shes very busy but im worried this thing is fading away. mostly because all were doing is texting every 2 or 3 days apart and short convos. WHAT DO I DO TO SPICE THINGS UP AGAIN. THIS TEXTING IS SUCH A BORING DISTANT WAY OF COMUNICATING AND IM NOT SURE WAT TO DO WITH IT........AND I DONT KNOW IF CALLING WOULD BE TO NEEDY AT THIS POINT.

Get busy mate.. that's the best solution. I know how it feels to be neglected, but you gotta give the babe a chance. Make her feel the "need" to have you.. if it doesn't work, then there's probably very little interest/attraction from the other party.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

It sucks that things are fading for you, but if she is indeed "wifey material" you need to get the meeting. The lack of tension probably is due to the fact that she hasn't seen you in so long. It is like Mystery said she needs to invest in you. She isn't initiating the text because she has barely anything invested in you.

One thing I have been trying lately that I have had some success with is just taking control and telling her what is going to happen. (Watch part one of cruel intentions on youtube when he tells the girl he is taking her out for lunch).

If you are texting for a lengthy period of time just say "K this is pointless we have been texting this long and I can't get anything done with these intermittent text messages every two minutes we are going for coffee now."

She may say no because she's busy, but if so you will actually make it happen and she will see this as confident.

Surprisingly in my experience girls aren't turned off by this jackass behaviour and see it as confidence. I have been told by a girl "I like how you just take control."

Give it a try

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Anger

Hey man be ballsy. Tell her that this texting thing is a boring distant way of communicating. Don't worry about always texting her first, girls love the chase. Be the hunter my friend. I would suggest telling her to hang out.
Say "hey party saturday night You're coming, i need a wingman so i can get some man ass." She'll either get the joke and love you're sense of humor, or really believe your gay and start wanting what she can't have.

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both very right, you have to get them out on a mission for you, to pursue you. Remember having love in your life is sometimes 10 times better than anything anyone else has and with 2 years on your belt you just need to start spending a little more time away from her