After getting her e-mail, I began to worry that I was not going to know what say when e-mailing her. I was confident and calml till the number close were my hand were shaking as I gave her the phone so she could put in her contact. any thing after the aproach, is coming sticking points. I am glad that a few months ago my sticking point was approaching but being too afraid to ask for her number. This means that I am improving
The problem is that when I learned about the seduction community, my main focus was on learning how to approach because at the time that was my sticking point (I do still have fear before I approach and even some times do not approach. However it is less than before). When I read forums, newsletters and did google searches, they were allot of the time about how to approach girls. I would most of the time ignore the ones about dating
Almost a month ago, I got a girls e-mail address (field report
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when I sent the mail, I was not too sure because she had not responded to my e-mail that I sent her but eventually she did. Below is the e-mail I sent and the one she sent back
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ME
Hi Danelle.
It was nice talking to you yesterday night at the barn and
I think I might come back next week. I decided to get your e-mail
because I thought u were cute and was interested in getting to know
you a little bit more.
Andrea
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HER
hey Andrea
sorry i have not answered you this past days i couldnt get in to my email. sorry
ja it was nice talking to you too. that be nice you coming back. its starts again on the
8 october. see you soon
She also invited me on facebook. I met her at my youth group and when I went back the next week I hardly talked to her because I was feeling aproach anxiety. . I was afraid of messing things up with her after doing so well. When I got home, I was extremely upset because i had not even said good bye to her. The next day I sent her a message to get a conversation going.
Allot of the stuff I have been learning in the past were all about approaching and every time that I got a girls e-mails, I found it hard to think about what to write to her. Below is the conversation (I also try to ask her out on facebook)
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Andrea October 9 at 9:00pm
How was youth group last night
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Danelle October 9 at 9:46pm
Hi. It was fun tnx n u
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Andrea October 10 at 9:11pm
Youth group was good but I would hav preferred it if I could have spent more time talking to you. I was a bit shy though. Anyway, would love to know more about you. What do you like to do when you have time on your hands. Do you ever go ice skating?
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Danelle October 10 at 9:29pm
Ja ey that would of be nice. Wel um i like drawing, writing, hanging out with fwends, watching movies, chating on mxit n fb. Yes i do go ice skating often. N i enjoy it very much
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Andrea October 12 at 9:16pm
What do you like to draw? I also like drawing but Its different to what you probably talking about. Have you ever heard about abstract art. I like drawing creative things that do not make sense.
I am going ice skating this sunday. How would you like to come with?
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Danelle October 12 at 9:41pm
Um ja i draw wat eva cmes to mind. Its very random.ja i ve heard of it. It kwl. Um ja i would love to bt i dnt hve money to go skating. Sowi
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Andrea October 13 at 10:39pm
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That's why I'm inviting you!
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Sent via Facebook Mobile
Danelle October 14 at 6:59pm
What do u mean ??
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Andrea October 14 at 8:37pm
I have free entrance cards were they let you in for free. I have not used them in some time. That's why I am going. I will pay using those cards if
you want.
Sent via Facebook Mobile
Danelle October 15 at 8:10am
Oh ok i c. Um who else is coming ?? I let u knw later if i cn cme.
the problem is that she asked who is coming with. No one in coming with and it sounds very AFC to tell her that.
I also want to know were is a good place to learn mid game
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