Hi.

I need a lot of help. I am going on a date on saturday with a girl who I have talked to a few times. She is really nice and funny, but I do not know if she has a bf. I do not think so. Also, when I texted her, I just asked her if she wanted to do something on saturday. She said yes. I did not ask her if she wanted to go on a date. Does it make a difference ? Where should I take her on a date ? Get some ice cream and go to the beach ? Go to a restaurant ? By the way, I live in Hawaii.

I really need a lot of help.

Thanks in advance.

Well most girls don't agree to hangout with an other guy one on one if they have a boyfriend unless they're looking...So I guess I would ask how did ya'll meet? has there been much kino? normally if a girl has a boyfriend it comes out fairly early and if it hasn't yet that should tell you something.


As far as where to take her that's all depends on the girl, something she likes to do. I for one don't do dinner or movie dates. You cant get to know someone setting quite in a theater and dinner dates I find boring and unoriginal, I live in Portland Oregon and we house one of the largest book stores in the world, I love taking a girl there, seeing what kind of books they like really tells you something about them, that and there's normally plenty of d.bags to make fun of there too lol, I also do the zoo a lot but it all depends on the girl and yourself, make it somewhere with stuff to see, anything that adds to the conversation is a good thing, but my advise is something that will allow you to talk as well as keep you entertained.

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Hi.

Thanks for your reply. We met one night at a bloc party in hawaii a few weeks ago. I met her through another friend. The night I met her she was waiting with my friend and 6-7 others at the bloc party. We walked down the street for a while, and then we went to beach. That night I did not really talk to her because I was hitting on one of the other girls in the group.
A week or less later I saw the girl that I am going on a date with. It was night after class, and we took the same bus together. We talked on the bus, had a few laughs. There was not any kino, but she is a very talkative and open person.

I am thinking about taking her to have some ice cream or frozen yougurt and then go to the beach. If I do that should I bring some alcohol on the beach ? Or would she think I am trying to get her drunk ?

Btw, check out my other post in the mid game forum. It is titled "Got a hot girl's number. She is a 8 or 9. What do I do now ?!" Please reply to that post if you have some advice. Thanks.

Cool man it sounds like you have a plan, I always tell people that kino it the number one best "Tool" when it comes to pickup, the way a girl reacts to kino will tell you more than words ever could. On that note I should say that light kino in a friendly playful manner is what yer after, not groping or anything like that. (don't be creepy)


I would stay away from the alcohol, it might be a bit too much for a first date unless you have built good comfort with the girl, a bar might be a little more suitable if you want a drink, having other people around will make her a little more comfortable than one on one.

good luck brother

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Hi.

Thanks for the advice.

Hi.

The date went great. We met at the yardhouse, a restaurant, but it was full, so we decided to find another place. We went to the cheesecake factory, but it was full, too. So, we walked a bit more, and I saw an ice cream place. I asked her if she wanted to go get some ice cream, and she said ok. We sat and talked at the ice cream place for 2 hours about everything. It was so much fun. I made her laugh a lot, but no kino. Then I said "let's go", and she followed me. I said "I let's go to the beach" and she was like "ok".
On the beach there was more kino, and she touched me to and pushed, so it was great. I looked in her eyes all the time, smiled, and laughed. I made her laugh a lot, which was great.
There was a moment where wanted to show me something on her phone, and I tried to work in a kiss. I leaned forward, like her, and my head was close to her's. When she looked up, she saw how close I was, and she pulled her head back a little, as if she was intimidated, or maybe she thought I wanted to kiss her. So I just played it cool, and pulled my head back a little.
I wished I had asked her "do you want to kiss me ?", but I felt that she was not ready for that, and I did not want to ruin future dates with her.
She told me that she had always had crushes, but she had never done anything about them. That gave me the impression that she is might be kind of shy, or afraid to show her feelings.
I really like her, and when we were on the beach I wanted to kiss her, but it did not happen. I did not get any IOI's, so that probably why I did not kiss her.
Also, I wanted to compliment her on her clothes, but did not get a chance to work it in. I did not compliment her really, and I wish I had. I wonder if it had made a difference if I had complimented her ?
But, as I said, I made her laugh a lot. So that is a good sign. Btw, we sat and talked on the beach for 3 hours. I guess she was enjoying talking to me, but i got the feeling at some point that she wanted to go home because she was tired (so was I, we both yawned a lot), and she took her shoes and tapped them on the sand as if she was ready to go. But this was after we had talked for 2-2,5 hours.

Please write your comments and advice. I could really use some help

VERY NICE I LIKE...


Glad everything went well man! Sounds like yer in and ya'll seem to connect a little. have fun with it brother!

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Ok. Thanks

Something I did not mention was when we left the beach and walked towards her place (I thought about walking her home), I said something, and then she said "But I do not know you that well". I might have said something like "do you not trust me ?" in a playful manner, kinda kidding. I do not remember. When she said "But I do not know you that well" I made a very surprised face, kinda joking, and I made her laugh. I was a bit surprised she said that, but I guess it was true. I told her that I did not know she felt that way, and she said that we had only talked a few time which was true. We stopped in front of a shop, and talked for about 5-10 minutes. Then I said to her that I understood why she said that she does not know me that well, but I was surprised that she said it. I wonder if I have ruined something by being suprised by her comment ? When we were talking in front of the store there was a distance of about a yard between us. Maybe I should have moved closer ? What are your thought on all of this ?
When I call her tomorrow and ask her out, where should I take her ? I am thinking a bar or restaurant, then the beach. I like the beach because it is so quiet and romantic at night.