So here's the rub; I hooked up with this girl, who happened to be friends of this girl I was genuinely insterested in. Now the two of them were good friends. I've finally become friends with the girl I was originally interested in and she's been giving me a ton of IOIs and has even given me shit for originally hooking up with her friend but has been alright with it. Now she's been all over me; flirting with me and responding to everything I've thrown at her. She's asked me out with her a couple of times and I've escalated but nothing towards a kiss. It's always been intimately playful (if that makes sense). I've made plans to go out with her for some dessert throughout the week. i'm not entirely sure how to play it. I've never had issues like this before and I honestly think she may be my oneitis but I figured I'd ask you guys what'd you'd do with a situation like this. Just so you have some reference, she's also an ex-friends ex-girlfriend. So it's a bit different than a usual relationship except I don't care too much about it being a friend's ex-girlriend. I just haven't been this nervous about a simple bit of food with someone before. All advice is welcome. Thanks.

Well the fact that she is giving u IOI's and has agreed to meeting you for dessert means that she likes you.

As mystery says "Pull the trigger"

I use a variant of the truth test to kiss close. Start off with asking her if she believes in ESP then use the guess a number between 1 and 4 routine(answer is 3) then the 1 - 10. (answer is 7) Both of these have a 70% chance of being correct.

You have to issolate her for this next bit. (coz this is the kiss close)

Then use the memory DHV routine from Mind reading tricks vol 1 on page 4. This involves using her eyes to tell what she is thinking about. ( works like a charm) if you cant find the book then email me at info@evochild.co.za and Ill mail it back to you.

Then say to her. Give me your hands, she will do it. Then say to her now I want to you to concentrate on your soul, your inner being. now move your and her hands so that they link fingers if you can. then say to her... close your eyes for a bit. focus on your heart beat. can u hear it? can you feel it? she will say yes. then say tune out all the other noise around us and focus on your feelings at this very moment.

Then tell her to open her eyes, stare straight at her for as long as you can. if she tries to speak put your finger on her lips and shush her. then ask her in a very serious voice...... Do you want to kiss me?

answer 1. she says yes ( bang! lean in and kiss her)
answer 2. she says maybe (say "well lets find out and lean in and kiss her)
answer 3. she says no ( well then maybe u been reading the kino wrong. but say "woah! I didnt say that you could, it just looked to me like you had something on your mind), then let go of her hands, lean back in your chair and move back into some comfort building routines.


This shit works for me. hope it does for u too.

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