So tomorrow I traded a girl computer instruction for her cooking dinner. Any kino or close ideas would be greatly appreciated. She is into me, so the attraction is there.

Cook with her, with wine... clean whilst you go... (Important, don't leave non sexual distractions for later)... if she's meant to be cooking let her lead, you assist... Allow's for strong communication show's your into equality, fun and gives you plenty of opportunities to kino.

Afterwards you have plenty of new material and can discuss the next cooking adventure.

Good pointer, not leaving non-sexual distractions.
She is extremely dominant, I have to break her, say maybe, "In here you are in charge, out there I am in charge." What do you think?
I like the new material. I'll tell her we won't discuss that with her tomorrow, only later.
Think I should bring strawberries and cream?
Should I bring wine, I know she has some, I could bring a bottle 'just in case' i didn't like hers? And I might not.
What about after dinner? Watch a movie? Movie ideas? I've got some good erotica I've written, should I bring it on this early?

Yeah, i mean if she wants to cook for you.. there is no harm i believe in allowing that.. but be involved... lol she know's her place in the kitchen

Curiously is this the first encounter? i.e.. the first date? If so.. i would hold off on the strawberries + cream, you don't wanna come across too strong straight up.. keep it light, fun.. her comfort is everything.

Bring Wine. For sure! it encourages it to be drunk, she may not even consider it.. but if you bring a bottle.. you can take it, open it and pour two glasses... Plus it looks like you are keen to contribute. Afterwards Movie I guess? just go with the flow.. but be decisive perhaps bring one over? as for movie ideas, thats a tough one.. if you don't know what she likes.. Romantic comedy's great idea.. they spark the right emotions.

Erotica? as in Porn?.. that you've written? do not whip this out if it's early days..

>>>Yeah, i mean if she wants to cook for you.. there is no harm i believe in allowing that.. but be involved... lol she know's her place in the kitchen

She would absolutely not let me be involved. She DID feed me-and her wine as i watched. She had candles. It was really a nice layout.

>>>Curiously is this the first encounter? i.e.. the first date? If so.. i would hold off on the strawberries + cream, you don't wanna come across too strong straight up.. keep it light, fun.. her comfort is everything.

I didn't get your message till after the date. You were right about the strawberries and cream coming off too strong, she paused. We did eat the strawberries later though. She is a student, been to four classes, one a week.

>>>Bring Wine. For sure! it encourages it to be drunk, she may not even consider it.. but if you bring a bottle.. you can take it, open it and pour two glasses... Plus it looks like you are keen to contribute. Afterwards Movie I guess? just go with the flow.. but be decisive perhaps bring one over? as for movie ideas, thats a tough one.. if you don't know what she likes.. Romantic comedy's great idea.. they spark the right emotions.

I did bring one over, told her I was a wine snob. But as a wine snob herself, she pointed out my wine was too sweet. She WAS right. But she had a magnum. We killed it.

>>>Erotica? as in Porn?.. that you've written? do not whip this out if it's early days..

I thought so. So I didn't.

The date was a bomb. I should have bailed. I should have gotten a "save call." But I didn't. She avoided kino both in the kitchen, at the dinner table and on the couch. Wouldn't get near me, sat at the opposite end of the couch. My classes are one-ononei, and there she is all over me. She asked why I was talking to her. I told her, "shit, this beats the hell out of frozen pizza!"
I think I'll stick to marrieds. They're so much easier. Last night I had one, no two, all over me.
Any ideas?