I went on an event with some friends and got 3 numbers, all of the girls were nice and I got numbers, here's how all the conversations went

Me

Either your a facebook addict, or your very bored
11:37pmRachel Laura

?
11:38pmMe

What did u do 2day?
11:39pmRachel Laura

woke up at 3 n chilled w a friend

u
11:41pmMe

About the same

woke up at 1

Gym

got a new phone ...

and set up a date with a girl
11:43pmRachel Laura

funn
11:43pmMe

why yes very.

I actually have to get people for another all nighter

but these ppl are more chill

like u can bring weed and they wudnt even care

are u interested in coming?
11:45pmRachel Laura

nah im good lol
11:45pmMe

i have to get 10 ppl for this guy

llol
11:45pmRachel Laura

?
11:46pmMe

im trying to get 10 people to sign up, the guy isnt so wealthy if u no wat i mean
11:49pmRachel Laura

nott rlly?
11:50pmMe

nevermind
11:57pmMe

anyway are u going anywhere during the break?
Today
12:09amRachel Laura

probly yup
12:20amMe

wat do u hav in mind?
12:26amRachel Laura

chill w friends
12:29amMe

i dont think i ever met one girl

that didnt say that

2nd girl:

42pmMe

hello brianna

how was ur day?
11:43pmBrianna

it was good...urs?
11:44pmMe

it could have been better

i went on a date with a girl that was a lil... bleh
11:44pmBrianna

lol sorry
11:45pmMe

its fine

u have a pretty profile pic

do u model?
11:45pmBrianna

haha thnx..but no i dontt
11:45pmMe

oh i thought u wer a porn model or something
11:47pmBrianna

ya im sure u did
11:48pmMe

haha did u make a pornstar name?
11:48pmBrianna

o yeahh. my name is cinnamon sparkle
11:48pmMe

lemme go google that...

http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=w ... 4Q&cad=rja
11:49pmBrianna

yep. thats me. im a belt
11:49pmMe

How convienient... I can use one of those...
11:50pmBrianna

hahaha they sell me at any local convenient store
11:50pmMe

amazing

even 7-11?
11:50pmBrianna

hmm im not sure. i think in some
11:51pmMe

i think I've seen u come free with slurpees
11:51pmBrianna

haha yeah that sounds about right
11:51pmMe

wow your super convenient
11:51pmBrianna

yes i am
11:52pmMe

haha what are u up to 2mm?
11:52pmBrianna

hanging out w sum friends. u?
11:53pmMe

need to do some errands and i need someone to accompany me

and seeing how convenient you are

i thought u wud be more than fit
11:54pmBrianna

haha sorry cannttt
11:54pmMe

really?

i thought u had the capabilities to be two placees at once?
11:54pmBrianna

haha guess nott
11:55pmMe

its fine, some other time

i have to run them every other day anyway
11:57pmBrianna

haha ok

Help... I don't know what to say to any girl after openers!!!!!!

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Im sorry, but reading that was just painful.

Were you trying to DHV? Whats that shit about you getting another girl on a date? Shel be thinking ''why the fuck is he talking to me''. Your bragging aswell, big man having house parties, and smoking free weed and whatnot.
Man Im sorry but that wasnt great....



Never mention drugs when talking to girls, even smoking in verbal commute is bad,
be more subtle with your brags. DHV's in general are told to other people in sets, otherwise shel think youre bragging directly.
Learn and study more, then continue man, cheers

I didnt like your negging either, it wasnt playful enough and was too patronizing.

So what would have been a good way to brag in that context?

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Kilativ is right.

It was pretty painful.

But that's how you learn.

First thing to keep in mind

Is NOT to talk so much.

if you need something to say

Refer to the night you met her

And things you remember that you can compliment her with.

But fishing for convo means you are chasing.

You have to mirror the girl's spirit.

if she gives one word responses, you do it to.

But then the goal is to get her to type more and speak freely.

When she does, you won.

Also, when a girl responds saying "You?"

Do NOT talk about yourself.

Be vague but use one word to suggest a topic that she is familiar with.

You are setting her up, to open up and type a lot more.

Seduction is NOT about you

Its about the woman.

Keep it that way.

Be Brave

I think I was pretty brave when I put this up, but when we met it was so awkward I just tried talking and even if I got the number they were so dry.

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As the other guys said, less fluffing. Try to keep it short and sweet.

The most painful part for me was this:
Saying you have to get people on someone else's behalf isn't very - and i hate this word - alpha. As well as seeming a bit 'desperate' to get her to come you're also saying that you have to try and get people to come for someone else.


In my opinion a better conversation could have gone something like this, with reference to what EyeAmShampoo said about refering to the night you met.
You: Hey
Her: Hey
You: How was your hangover after the other night haha (for example, I usually get a good response from this) -
Her: Response (usually something like "omg it was so bad how was yours? blah blah" either way the response doesn't matter much)

Now from here you can generally get straight to the point. Obviously you could pan it out a little longer but this is what I personally like to do.

You: Anyway I can't chat long 'cause I'm going to bed in a minute (hence you were talking at night. If talking in day then just say you got stuff to do). Fancy coming to a house party next week? (or whenever it is.)

Then whatever response you get here gives you the answer Yes or No allot quicker without any banter that's unnecessary to the point of you talking to her.

If she says Yes then great.

If she says no then you just say something like "No problem. I gotta go now anyway so goodnight and we'll hang out soon."

Or instead of "we'll hang out soon" something like "stay out of trouble you"



Footnote, as mentioned, no drug talk. Even if they do smoke some pot.

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I'm kicking myself when I'm reading references to my conversation, but eh I got to learn right? Thanks man

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