I've used this sometimes, and it seems to work pretty well. It might actually work as an opinion opener too, but usually I use it in mid-game after isolation.

"You know how many men say that they can't see if another man is good looking? That's bullshit. The very same men will hold on extra tight to their girlfriends when a hot male walks by, because they see that he's hot and feel threatened by him. So they DO see beauty in other men. It's just that there is a difference between noticing someone's beauty and being attracted to them. Like that guy over there, I can see that he looks good, but I don't feel attracted to him because I just don't swing that way. However, I see no point in lying to myself about the fact that I find him good looking. I might even say that I'm attracted by the beauty of some men. Take Brad Pitt, for example. He's the kind of guy that everyone wants to hang out with, even if it was only for his looks. So, yes, I'm attracted to his looks. But this doesn't mean that I'm SEXUALLY attracted to him. That's yet another distinction that people tend to overlook. But OK, there may be one man in the world who I might be a little bit sexually attracted to: Johnny Depp. I mean, hey, just the bragging rights - being able to say 'I slept with Johnny Depp', imagine that. And he actually intrigues me.. Wouldn't you sleep with him any day of the week?"

And from there you've got a conversation going.

Any comments?

(cross posted from my field report here-vp376723.html#376723 )