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The technique you're reffering to when you mention using specific words designed to stimulate a specific emotion is a type of NLP. It can indeed be done but it's definitely a different style of storytelling to a standard DHV.
Whilst the use of NLP to stir sexual emotions is a good starting point; if you truly want it to be effective you'll have to add some physical escalation as well, which makes it more direct and so obvious.
I think you should definitely avoid asking questions like "what does an orgasm feel like?" - at least until you've built enough comfort for it not be weird.
Overall I think it's probably a good idea if you have a lot of sexually themed stories which don't come off as bragging or creepy, but as aforementioned physical escalation is definitely best way to pump the sexual tension.
I see ok... well although I have a number of sexually themed stories - its difficult to talk about sex in previous relationships without being braggy - right? even if you just drop a sex story in there - its still a touch braggy. How would i go about doing that?
Basically my aim is to try to get the girl thinking of sex and particularly thinking about sex with me... whats the best course of action for that? maybe saying something along the lines of "I love foreplay and like spending time on it" maybe that will get her thinkin of me eating her out and her sucking me off etc