This is really obvious, but I've just tried it out to great success. On a date with this girl with a lip ring, while she's talking it keeps going to one side because it's a little too big. So finally I drop conversation, take her by the chin and have her face me straight on and I nudge the lip ring to the center and tell her, "Sorry, but it keeps moving to the side and it's activating my ADD." Very subtle neg and kino. She qualifies herself by saying she's usually more symmetrical with her piercings, but it's too big, and she doesn't like studs, yadda yadda. Night ends in makeout, plans to see eachother Friday, only knew her for an hour. This is now going to be part of my routine from now on. It was just too easy and effective not to share.

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31 and still figuring it out.