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| Bourbon14 | PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 6:30 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:27 pm Posts: 10 Location: West Midlands, UK | | Hey, first post but please be as critical as you need to be... Im here to learn after all.
So, my problem is that any time a conversation starts to head in a sexual direction I start to flounder. And it is really obvious to the girls I flirt with.
This happens mostly at work where I employ C&F with confidence almost constantly with the HB7 and HB6 that sit on my desk. This works great and I am fine with suggestion but as soon as it starts to lead to a place that will highlight my actual sexual experiences I change the subject if I can or give generic answers that give away my inexperience.
I have very limited sexual experience and it shows. How can I handle this until I can learn the necessary?
Bourbon.
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| minsok | PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:00 pm | |
Joined: Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:43 am Posts: 1084 | | Flirting, when done right, is like tennis. When a girl makes a sexual comment or hints at your experience, she's hitting the ball in your court. What you're then supposed to do is hit the ball back to her, you turn it around on her and put her on the defensive. It's harmless fun and you should never have to be explicit. If she starts asking explicit questions, it's more than office flirting. If you want examples of how to respond, you give examples of when you were put on the spot. Of course, it's much harder to respond in person, you have to be quick on your feet. And by feet I mean mind.
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