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So for about a few weeks now I have been talking with this girl.
We're in the comfort stage, slowly building on kino and then that's when I drop my game : I start to like her.
I do things that i KNOW I shouldn't be doing, for example calling her every day, getting upset when she doesn't and just stuff like that.
Through all that I know i've lowered my value to her, making her seem like she is the catch and she is choosing me.
Now that my value in her eyes has dropped dramatically lol, is there anyway to rapidly bring it back up? Or is it a slow gradual thing to do?
Any tips on what to do would be awesome to.
TB
it's going to be hard, but you really need to stop calling her everyday.. it's just natural to feel this way, that's why it's good to have a solid foundation of inner game..
now to bringing your DHV back, it all depends on how you know this girl.. if you and her are in the same social circle, then you really just need to stand out.. it's gonna take a while to even have her see you as an alpha again.. the other alternative is actually just letting her be, and start going out with other girls.. and make sure you learn from your mistakes.. this shows that you're really not that desperate for her, and you could actually have fun..