I've been wondering about what to do once I've run dry of things to say, for whatever reason, and the conversation has become stale, or worse, silent. From what I've understood so far, it's best to leave on a high, so ultimately, the best thing would be to see this coming and either avoid it, use your time-constraint, with the option of returning/ number-closing.

But what to do when you haven't managed to avoid it, and it's awkward and you're really just losing value. One idea I've had would be to say "Ugh, you're boring me now, I'm going to go and find some interesting people, find me when you become one." Or something to that effect. You could also say "I'm bored now, do something about it." Assuming you've already created female-to-male attraction, you'd be getting her to work to keep you in there, and if she fails, you can neg her and walk away.

What do you guys think? I've tried this out with friends, but because we're friends, they've generally responded sarcastically. I'm unsure if this would actually work, and I don't think I'm savvy enough to try something that hasn't been tried and tested before. Thoughts?

I often find I have the same problem. No silences but the conversation just gets a little dull. For example I was out on Thursday at a London club and talking to this gorgeous blonde, but apart from finding out her job the conversation sort of died.

In terms of telling a girl she’s boring, I think that really depends on your tone and the way the conversation has gone up until that point. If the conversation is stale and you then say to a girl cold ‘man you’re boring’ she’ll most likely be offended and you’ll look rude. I think that sort of line really depends on context. For example I was chatting to a girl a few weeks ago who started telling a story. It was perfect opportunity to neg. As girl went on I teased her about being boring and pretended to fall asleep or did the sarcastic “oh that’s really interesting” and then turning to one of her friend’s and rolled my eyes. If it is all said really playfully it always gets a laugh, but if it sounds cold and genuine you could unintentionally appear a bit of a dick.

I have actually seen some interest stuff in this forum for dealing with dead conversation and I can’t wait to try some of it out. For example one guy suggested if there is a silence saying “I hate you” to the girl. Playfully of course. That would definitely draw a response.

I think the best one I’ve read is “I noticed something interesting about you when you walked in/were at the bar etc.” I love this line. It immediately gets her asking what that was and gives you the power to withhold that information. I tried this line the other day and it worked brilliantly. The girl actually kept bring it up in conversation and if I ever wandered off she’d find me and push to find out what that interesting thing was.

What I like to do when conversations go stale is say "Don't You Love It When Conversations Go Stale" I've tested this a couple of times and each time I't got the conversation back to where it needs to go some girls aren't even aware of it one chick I was talking to said Is It? and I said yeah and then she brought up some interesting stuff. The line has personally got me out of a stale conversation many times trie it for yourself.

Or you can practice like you have ADD, have a friend say a topic and then branch off that really fast and continue going into other things.

Example: Pizza - I love pizza, I prefer pizza from chicago, it seems better than new york pizza, but LA has good pizza too and girls there love it, they seem to like everthing tho, they are all so beautiful there, but there are beautiful girls every where, a lot in miami too, those two city's are a lot alike, like the weather is the same, it's strange how they're on different coasts yet are pretty similar, I think the east coast is better tho and....etc.

Practice fast and you will eventually be able to make statements about anything a girls say's normally.

This is advice I got from DJ Fuiji.

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Doesnt matter, Let the convo get stale.
But i cant see the conversation getting stale if you're ESCALLATING!
the conversation cant get stale if your less than 2inchs apart. THATS A MAKE OUT SESSION ISNT IT?

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WHAT IM TRYNA SAY IS "make the ho say no"
Dont "time constaint when convo gets dull, dont run, dont # close.!!! just stick in there like a man and f-close or if she has other plans, than k-close! BUT NEVER RUN!

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