Ok first time out with a girl for a while.

Met her on POF, ran a marriage/divorce opener on her and a few messages later I had her phone number

Went immediatly to texting. Text flirted for two days, set up a date for this wednesday.

I texted her from work today, asked what she was up to, she responded 'I'm free, what does my ex husband want to do tonight? lol' I wasn't even going to try to see her! I guess my text game is on.

Logistics SNAFUed and she didn't text me until almost midnight (Im a night owl). I gave her a few negs about it and she agreed to meet me for ice cream at 1230 am even though she had to work at 6!

We walked while we ate, I kept up the cocky-funny and a few negs. She seemed really into it, lots of smiling, laughing, etc. She asked if we were still on for wed, i told her maybe if she behaved, i would see how the next few days go (cocky-funny)

I didn't run any routines or kino, since we were only going to be together for 45 min or so.

I got home and she text me 'thanks for the ice cream and walk it was really really nice'

I text back 'of course it was, i told you i was the real deal goodnight, try to survive work tomorrow'

Her texting nice kind of threw me off, but what else was she gonna text? I don't think i got friendzoned. Im gonna kino her and go for the K-close on our date.

Statistics wise she is about a 7, avg face and body, but really nice rack, I had to keep telling myself not to stare at them

So where do you guys think I stand?

Overall, you handled things pretty well. It sounds like you did a good job of number-closing and making a quick transition to meeting up in person. And it seems like you're well positioned for your date on Wednesday. Just be sure not to overdo the cockiness; keep the emphasis on the funny/playful side of the equation. (Too much negging, and you'll offend her and get blown out.) And next time you're in a similar position, start with light kino right away -- before the ice cream melts It doesn't matter that you were together for only 45 minutes or that you already had another date set up. It's never too soon to begin kinoing.

One more suggestion: for goodness' sake, strive to be a man, not a misogynist. She's a human being with personality and feelings, and not a set of "statistics" or a "rack" with legs. By all means, fantasize about her and all the nasty things you'd like to do with her, and sneak a peek or two at her chest when she's not looking. But always remember that, regardless of anything either good or bad that may or may not happen between the two of you, she's a person and worthy of respect.