Hey y'all I'm 17 and the girl in question is the first girl I've ever kissed . Apparently I can't post in the relationships forum because I don't have enough posts.

So anyway I meet his girl, who's about an 8 with a pretty face, on FACEBOOK (haha!) and she tells me I have an amazing personality, which I do, duh. At the time I wanted to get with a different girl instead. A couple months later that one has fallen over (you can't have everything) and I go after facebook girl instead. I end up meeting her in person at a party, I isolate in the back yard, we talk a bit, I go "I really wanna kiss you but I'll feel like a slut ..." and two minutes later kiss her.

That line officially has a 100% success rate .

Some girl has a seizure in a timely fashion (!) and we leave, I didn't want to make out, just kiss, so this is cool .

Anyway I have met her a few times on dates of sorts since then and made out, she's really nice and she was crazy into me but she lives about an hour away by train. Also it's exam month so I am busy and I see her 3 times in 3 weeks.

Now, I invite her to a party thrown by a friend of mine. You're meant to only bring +1s but she's like "can I bring a friend?" and me, thinking it's a girl, of course say yes. So it turns out ...

... that this person she's bringing along is a gay friend of hers who she promised to hang out with. I'm like, cool, whatever, but he's a jerk and a big sister type who keeps talking with her and pulling her away when I turn my back. Later on, she says he wants to go home, with her, cause he doesn't trust me, or else he's going to stand out the front and wait for her to leave! Jeez man you kiss one girl and every douchebag thinks you're a player.

I try befriending him a bit in true Mystery style but I can't get him on my side.

I think, well I'm not going to force her to lose her friend of 10+ years just cause I wanna stay at a party. I'll just see her tomorrow, right? I mean I don't plan on getting laid anyway, lol. She tells me she'll see me the next day and she apologises profusely for it, then she goes home.

So, next day, I wake up at 2pm, send her a text which she doesn't reply to, which is rather out of character. I say hi on msn that afternoon and she doesn't talk, and when I say I found the situation funny, she says she's really angry right now and logs off. I can't get anything out of her further. The next day she won't reply to me either. So I'm a bit worried I guess. I don't want to lose this girl just yet.

so

A) What do you guys reckon has happened here?

and B) How do you deal with a gay big sister as an obstacle?

It's standard for her to bring a friend, it was your friends party so she didn't want to be left on her own in there if you were to be mingling.

Gay guy or girl, it makes no difference. Let him win on any of that because she will always pick him over you.

I think the fact she is be unresponsive is nothing to do with what happens, but of course I wasn't there so I can't assure that. Sometimes women will have their own reasons, so take three days off and then initiate the conversation as you previously would.

Let me know how it goes mate!

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with little dick bitches like that, you ignore, freeze out, pay absolutely no attention to, dont even acknowledge him.. leaving the girl to be pissed off with him. If he drags her away, yeah that totally sucks, but dont let her know that your bothered, say "oh ok, you gotta go, see you next time" and let her shoot off. The Fag got no attention (which is what he was looking for) and the girl see's you as the relaxed, happy go lucky (or unlucky) guy that she knows and likes. Win Win WIn

About the text situation, personally id just send her a picture of my cock or something, just to break the ice, but im the kind of guy that gets away with that.
leave it for 4 days, even a week. if no response then completely ignore the fact that shes ignored you, dont bring it up, or continue with the past conversation, just ask what shes been up to, make a joke.. "Ao are you still having to babysit that gay guy? hehe".. that kind of thing.
Good luck

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okay, cheers for reading guys, i'll talk to her later in the week, and tell you what happens nothing as of yet

"sorry about this weekend, i guess I just needed time to think things over, how are you? xox"

and high fives all round.

Aah, i knew it would work out. :p

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