i try to get this girl X but didnt really work out.. we are kind of "gym friends" i guess.
now she is hot, and she has a hot friend. her friend Y is really shy or at least it seems like it to me. i always see Y in the gym with some little asian dude and she is sexy as ffuck and she stands out clearly. now ive noticed she checks me out a lot (maybe its just me) but once she was trying to lift something heavy and she bent over to lift it and looked in the mirror as i was walking by and i smiled cuz i thought its funny cuz that was heavy weights for a girl like her. i wouldve talked to her but what stopped me and still does it that asian guy with her!!

she knows im friends with X but for some reason we never talk..
im down to hit on her but im afraid that X will start saying shit about how i tried that on her OR X will be like wtf, first me now my friend..

help me out here

could you trust X to not make a big deal about the past and keep her mouth shut about it

could you confide in her that your interested in the new one and just wanted to know what the story is with the guy---if you could that would be great--but from what ive seen of them in general you probably couldnt confide in her.

could you get away with saying something to the first target like---those two make a great couple how long have they been together--could you get the info you want with out her knowing whats behind it or blabbing that you asked

the asian dude is just her friend.. im more than sure. the girl that i wanted first is a super nice, attractive and active girl.. what turned me on is her being so active and hyper and pretty at the same time.
things didnt really workout with her cuz i tried to get a dinner with her but she said she straight up that she's not interested (well not like that but hinted it) so i laid low for a while. i saw her friend all the time around the school walking right pass me and we always have a strong eye contact for a quick 2 seconds.

what im worried about is that the first one will be like "yeah he asked me out for dinner once and i said no" and that will be a big turn off for the second girl i guess.
the first one doesnt think im a bad guy or anything, its just that she wouldnt want her best friend to be with a guy who tried to hit on her you know what i mean here?

Stop making excuses, lip Asian dude should be easy to amog. Just go for it, you'll never know n be kicking yourself hard before its too late n you coulda had something.
Don't regret it. Feel changed, learn n itll show.

do you think the first one told friend about your diner invite----is there anyway you could seperate them and ask no 2 out------