These are the aspects of a man that will demonstrate higher value:

-Health
-Social Intuition
-Humor
-Status
-Wealth
-Confidence
-Pre-selection
-Challenging


So I was reading this new book by Mystery's company. I believe in a section on attraction, Mystery (maybe Matador) wrote that a man's health (looks) are the most apparent and effective ways to demonstrate your value.

This is the reason:
"Health" is not necessarily based on how physically attractive a guy is, however it is based on how nicely a guy dresses and takes care of himself.

Mystery stated that most girls (especially hot ones) automatically believe that every guy is a 5/10 (possibly even less) until they start observing features and values about him. A female's rating of a guy can either go up or down, depending on how he demonstrates value. So, if a guy with a good demonstration of health (looks) approaches a girl and shows confidence, he can automatically become a 6/10 or even a 7/10 if he shows confidence.

If you think about it, health and confidence are extremely important to pick up girls. If a guy dresses well and takes care of himself, then spits a good opener with confidence, most girls may actually think of this guy above the level of AFC.

Think about this:

A guy with well fitting clothes, a well-toned body, good features and a nice style approaches girls with a confident opener. How many girls do you think would actually ignore this guy or blow him off before he can even transition?



In this thread I would like for everyone to post thoughts on what they think the most important way to demonstrate value would be. Do you agree that health and confidence can automatically put you above a 5/10?

Health is important of course. Try gaming with a broken arm, it won't work as well.
Everything is important to DHV.
You can be well broomed when you go out, but if your house is a total mess and you don't broom yourself everyday, bad thing.
So you must live healthy, eat healthy, do some sport, be countious about your health.

I believe status, wealth and pre-selection falls in the same category. By living it you will gain it.
You again can show in the club that you have alot of friends, but you must have them in order to do so.
Only by having them, you can show status. Of course you can show status by other things, but having a great job and lots of cash is just bragging.

Confidence is also very important, this is something you just need to have. You cant fake this.
But you get it by living a higher value life.
Same thing for beeing challenging, if you play world of warcraft all day, you can't be challenging.

So basicly, in order to be good at giving DHV's, you must live them. That is the most important part of it.
So the most important DHV, on the long term, is beeing enterprising of your own life.

This is why naturals are naturals, this is basicly everything.
undertaking action of your own life

Word.... I totally agree

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