I like this girl at work but she likes to bust my Chops nothing mean but she kids around. She is shy and she seemed to warm up to me first and talks to me most. The other thing is she has a boyfriend but she only has mentioned it to me once and this was like a month after she started and we talk allot. They have been together for a year and a half so I guess I don't know how to peruse this I am use to picking up girls and do not have a problem picking up girls at clubs and bars. She qualifies allot for me so I do I just do her or get her to break up with her boyfriend. If I have learned one thing in life its boyfriends are not forever I just am not sure if I should get them to break up some how?

No, I don't think you should do anything to make them break up. Doing so would lower your value by making you seem like you need her and her attention. You just need to make her know that you are available and that you are better than her boyfriend. DHV with stories and if she ever complains about her bf, make sure you take advantage and make her see how you would have handled the situation better. During your DHV make sure that you are not bragging about being with other girls at the clubs, as she may see this as a disqualifier. The tricky part is you have to be edgy enough to let her know you are interested, otherwise you will fall in the friend zone.
Good luck.

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Again what I say alot in these situations is don't try and break 2 people up, that's because I believe in karma.

Just be yourself, she likes you, keep the conversation interesting with sly flirting.

A girl I know dumped her bf before because of me (wasn't my intention) We got together a few months down the line.

How? I was being me, the person she liked, fun, confident, smart, not needy, she knew other women had their eye on me, so it made her want me more.

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Thanks for the advice guys I will use it.