Hey Guys,

Alright I'm new at this but I've been going out lately and trying some of the things I've learned so far. I've noticed that I've gotten more and more comfortable with the approach and have had good success with it so far. I've developed a few canned openers that have been getting good responses to where i see the women are interested in me.

My most successful opener i have is walking up to an attractive girl and asking her where she would suggest for me to get a good tan (ie tanning salon or beach) because i'm trying to work on my pale skin. This opener works for me cause i'm black so the minute i say that even the bitchiest of looking girls immediately starts laughing and can't even control her smile. I usually then go into teasing her for holding out on me then that playfulness and back and forth I see is on from the get go.

The problem I've been running across is after we have a back an forth where i see she deff is interested in me cause i seem like a witty fun guy, i get stuck as to where to go to get her into the comfort zone I've heard mystery talk about where I can get a number and actually have her answer the call later.

I'm not sure if i should go to "normal convo" here or are there any good convo topics i can bring up to help me get to the comfort stage. I know i want to keep the playfulness and teasing while i'm doing this.

Any Suggestions?

just say u want to fuck her in the ass in the bathroom if she says no she has issues..

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If you got attraction and good convo going. And you see IOI its time to go for the number. The easist way to get a number naturally if you dont really have to balls just to give her the phone (and most often this is more effective)
you should create a timebridge.
If you two are having a good time you should do it some more - at another time.
Suggest something, and then get her number as a side-effect of you seeing her again. A number is just a number. A timebridge is the shit.

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If she has her cell with her, she should call her own phone from yours.
Record a message saying something about how much fun she is having, or something else.
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Then you use the number to call/text with the purpose of choosing a day for the date she allready has agreed on.

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I kind of agree but it depends on what kind of position you are in, Energy has a point, but I like to state intent early on, and push pull with it.. Digits are good but problem is, is that they blank calls and shit and tx is a nightmare it all depends on their initial interaction with you... and this is crucial!... I use carrier Pidgeon or just ask them where they live and knock on their door so i can ask if they wanna come out and play etc... Its usually pretty good but to each their own... you need to find out what works for you tho, good luck. colonol. xxx

Energy,


Thanks for the advice man. I like that suggestion. What always got me was i'd be looking for a way to get in a comfort zone with her (mystery's C1) to then get the number cause i didn't want to do it to early then have it not lead to dates.

What i'm going to try to do is after my approach (i'll make sure to set up a time constraint beforehand) to just when i hit my artificial constraint use your suggestion to get her number (if she's giving me IOI's) then move on.

If anyone else has more suggestions let me know as well. Thanks guys.

time-constraint ("listen, i've got to get going") and tell her "let's get together sometime for a cup of tea and make friends."
you might also add "you sound like you might make an interesting friend" in between the two above lines.