So, I have a couple of girls who are my "regulars" at this point, and my bday is a couple weeks away. They are all trying to make plans with me, but I dont want to have to deal with the drama involved with someone either getting thier feelings hurt or one of them feeling too special and wanting a relationship based on spending my day with them. Any tips gentlemen?

Only idea I have is to spend my bday with my family, but I still have too many plans and not wanting to pass up on this... I am getting a couple lingerie modeling presents and I want to take advantage of all the action...

Please give me a hand guys.

Make plans with one of them on your b-day, and tell the other one that you're spending the day with your family, but she can give you an "extra special" belated b-day present the day after

Or....tell them the truth.

"I'm gonna have a quiet night with one of my friends on my birthday, but the next day is our day"

It's only juggling if you make it difficult for yourself. Just pick one up, then put them back down then pick another one up. Same result yeah?

-D

its not lying its flirting - style

You are 100% correct, the only one making this difficult was me. I make the plans and I don't need to exlain myself at all, idk why this was even an issue but it was all just in my head.

Thanks for the input guys

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