the girl i want has a BF, but she calls me, & will say she misses me when we dont see each other. when we are together i make her smile all the time, and she always laughs at my jokes, when we hug its for an extended period of time she acts like she hates it but i know better, she even admitted it today. anyway when ever i try to escalate she uses this BF excuse, ive dodged this like 20 times with C&F like i was Ali, but she wont let up


i know its "immoral" but how can i make this work?

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Go Get it ,start escalating and throw some false disqualifier; You can be real to and tell her you like her and if you hang out to much with her you're going to supposably fall in love with her ( Hijack my brain concept) ; Either way we only live once so go get her man

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believe me man, im going for it, but its literally like she's putting a nail in my tires. i know she wants me, she says she's attracted to me, but wont let me get close. it the most confusing thing ive ever experienced. i guess if i keep at it she will give in but i feel like a total AFC for letting her do this to me

im going to read up on this hijacking my brain thing

anymore ideas will really be appreciated

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The 'Hijacket my brain' thing is usually used for LMR, if she is still with her BF you using the 'hijacked my brain' bit may be coming on to stong and may loose you value.

Mysterys 'Hijacket my brain' is used for LMR because it mimics the feelings you would have if you had formed a 'pair bond' and thus will make her more willing to have sex with you.

Its very useful but save it until closer to the seduction stage.

If i was in your situation i would AMOG her BF and make sure you have hit all the attraction switches.

If she sees you as higher value than her current BF its only a matter of time.

When you keep being at her and pushing this - she will keep her boyfriend and think "Oh, that guy is anyways always there for me. He's my plan B."

She will take for granted that you're there for her no matter what. You need to have some fun without her. Sarge other women and flirt around. Make it seem as if you're looking for a new target and that it's just a matter of time until you're taken.

This will give her a fear of loss. She doesn't want to lose you. So if she truly likes you, this will have a strong effect of jealousy and attraction.

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i realized she's just playing hard to get with me, i feel like she's using the push pull method to keep my interest and make her self seem like she's not a slut. @nate i hear what your saying about showing her i have more value than her BF, but i doubt we will all be in a group together for me to AMOG.(i really dont care to meet him) Panda also makes sum interesting points i think a little freeze out will turn the tables;get her chasing me a little more

dont get me wrong its not just me chasing all the time, and we've met up going on 4 days in a row now. any funny BF disqualification lines would serve me well in this situation(cuz in running out of them lol)

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Panda's advice is solid and it is EXACTLY what I would do. Don't be her plan B. Make yourself scarce, and let her know, SUBTLY, that you have other prospects. It may only take once or twice of saying, "sorry I can't today, I have some friends to meet up with." Then don't text her the rest of the night, so she has to wonder if you're in some other girls bed. Text the following day and don't mention it unless she asks; then be avoidant and change the subject.

i feel you, i even thought about sending her a text or sum, but im gonna change my focus & see what happens

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I recently read about forbidden patterns of NLP and in the middle of it there were a few BF sestroying patterns. One of which was not to knock on him but rather to make hm appear unnattractive by AFCing him from afar. EX : If the girl tells you he's being abusive tell her "Well your probably the only and best thing that happened to him in a LONG while so he's trying to push you down to feel more secure i guess ?" Keep it non aggressive. And don't JUMP on her complaining, act like you're thinking about it.

If she's saying "He's acting jealous" you say this (extract from jack ellis "forbidden patterns"all rights reserved :p):

“Try not to be mad at him, OK? It’s just that you are probably the highest-caliber woman that he’s ever been with, and he knows that if you ever left him he would never find someone of your quality again. He’s just worried, that’s all.”

It all more or less revolves around making him look like he's doing his best but has a reprehensible comportment while not judging him.

wish i had this about 4 days ago, would have been perfect but ill keep it in mind for future refrence

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