I had a look through the various subforums and couldn't think of anywhere else to post this, sorry if it does't belong here

This post is more out of curiosity than necessarily towards improving results

1. Is a boner on the dancefloor from grinding or even when she's sitting on your lap common? What are the thoughts on whether her detecting this is a good or a bad thing?

2. Do any guys relate to this: you meet a girl and begin gaming her and as rapport and attraction builds, after some variable amount of time passes you notice that your dick is leaking precum. No boner. Even if you haven't done ANY kino yet.

wear two layers bro...

hehe good find bro

is your question what to do when a girl sees you have a boner??

lmao i usualy just hide it kinda put my coat over it or something

depending on the situation i might play it up maby if she sees it and it not repulsed grab her start kissing grab her hang and put it there

but i would like to hear and answer if there is one

from the film superbad (2007)
Seth: Look at those nipples.
Evan: They're like little baby toes. It's just not fair that they get to flaunt that stuff, you know... and like, I have to hide every erection I get.
Evan: Just imagine if girls weren't weirded out by our boners and stuff, and just like wanted to see them. That's the world I one day want to live in.
Seth: You know what I do? I flip my boner up into my waistband. It hinds it AND it feels awesome. I almost blew a load into my bellybutton.

Ok forget question 2, google actually has some results
But the first question is something I'm genuinely interested in hearing responses to. i.e.
"Her detecting your dancefloor grinding-induced boner/semi, when is that a good/bad thing?"

Haha the dancefloor one is understandable

the second one about conversation though

I know most puas say dont jerk off, but I think in your case you should jerk off before gaming

REMEMBER: Women relate dancing to sex.

With that in mind I wouldn't care I would just look at it have her look and laugh, if I were dancing I would throw it on her hard and handle her up just as if we were having sex!

#2 is crazy... if thats your situation then go to the bathroom and jerk off.. or maybe stop taking 11 e pills before you go out.. lol

as for #1.. i get boners really easily when dancing.. i dont' want to be walking arund with a boner, and her ass won't really bring it down, so i just give up on dancing and chill.. whether she likes it or not, you'll still be that guy with the boner in the middle of the club, and that is immensely hazardous to your game.. if she likes your boner she wont be grinding on it the whole time like some stripper on a pole (.. she'll push up against it once or twice, and thats your cue to isolate her. if she backs off, thats her cue that she's uncomfortable with it, and thats when you eject, wait till it softens up and go at it again.. .

1) Seems to happen to a few of us. In the past when this has happened to me - do a quick analysis of the woman, assess if she would be weirded out by turing this dance into the sexual state (some girls are like that..sadly). When you've danced with her for a while, make sure you've k-closed and than take her hand and put in on your dick. There is a LR somewhere on here of a PUA who does it constantly, seems to get him laid.. try it out.

2) Now this is your mind tricking you, like most men - you are talking to a target, but imagining them naked, on your bed. You just gotta learn to control it (imagine your target naked on your bed when you are walking to her place - feel free to tell her the naughty shit thats about it happen....) , also - try doing pubic muscle strenthening exercises (the same muscle you use to piss). If the problem persists, try jerking one off and asess the differences.

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1) I get all the time. It doesn't worry me. I would be more worried if I didn't get a hard on.

2) Not as insane as it sounds. I'm pretty sure it's happened to me before although it could have been a drop of piss lol. 'No matter how much you shake your peg, a small drop always goes down your leg'

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