This is a post for those of you, like me, who are students. Guys, lets be honest, we're disadvantaged. All of this PUA stuff is great for the adult society, but what about the school microenvironment?

After five years of school i finally understand the social dynamics of the school system, this popularity ladder, and the girls that follow.

These are my 3 pillars for not only getting the girl in school but becoming the social king at the same time - believe me i've done this on both counts.

1. Get pissed.

This was a big mistake for me not only with girls but with guys. I was under the false impression that people respond better if youre just sycophantically nice to them, no matter how bitchy they are. WRONG. If girls think they can get away with it they'll keep doing it, destroying your social value in the process. Instead. get visibly annoyed. Keep eye contact and say something cutting. If you still want to maintain a good relationship with them, give them a light push and say 'fuck off' and smile like its a shared joke. With guys respond with something equally cutting - sarcasm delivered confidently completely throws them - but keep it all light and jokey. (See how to deal with an AMOG - essentially its a disarming of them). So dont be afraid to get a bit annoyed - it shows that you're emotionally wired correctly and that you don't take shit.

2. Tease like crazy.

Especially for a hot girl in this small environment she is going to think she is a godess - untouchable by mere mortals. Prove her wrong. Take the piss out of anything - but in a jokey manner again. We do not want to harm her self esteem or make her like us - for the most part thats an unrealistic goal. Instead the fact that you have the balls to tease the queen bee will prove to everyone around you that you are a socially valuable guy. She won't hate you for it unless shes a total bitch - so pick your battles. You know the stunning girl whos also quite nice and v. popular? Thats your target.

3. He who leads the men.....

You can follow all these rules, but if your only friend is the librarian youre not going to get any high quality girl. Before you even think about going for a girl you have to go for the guys. Youre an intersting guy. Have the confidence to put yourself out there and chill with some socially insurmountable people. It may be awkward at first but play your cards right and they'll eventually love you. This is the fundaments of pickup but on guys - (even if you are their gimpy mate.) This will soon change anyway until youre rolling with the big dogs.

Any questions i'd be happy to respond - believe me this is the iceberg, i have a whole fucking thesis on this.

Laters.

Harem x

Yo Harem - kudos to you on finding a way to beat the system.

Y'know, in Singapore the whole social ladder thing is not even clear, everyone is pretty much equal and stuff. BUT - that doesn't mean you can't establish yourself as numero uno.

Okay. So this are the principles I've developed while on this PUA journey. Do tell me if they're similar to your thesis in anyway, aye?

Rule #1: Survival of the fittest.
This entire world is a bitch eat bitch world, and that applies too for school. Keep your friends close to you but your enemies closer. That way, if they're ever a step out of line - use their deepest insecurities against them.

Rule #2: Establish yourself as the AMOG as early as you can.
Try to establish your position as numero uno as early as you can - preferably, the first day you're with your friends. Don't come off as a pushy hardass - just be the life of the party and flirt with the girls and develop some level of attraction with them and you've won them over.

Rule #3: Never give people what they want.
Being el supremo comes with a heavy reputation - Never give people what they want. . . exactly. Don't come off as a miser, just someone who makes it a challenge for people to get the most ordinary things in life.

Rule #4: Dominance over females = Dominance over males
In this world, the ratio of PUAs to AFCs is about 2:10. Yes, it's that low. Most AFCs will see you as some kind of David Copperfield if you just show them you can pick girls up easily.

Okay this are some of my principles, summarised. Look forward to your reply!

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Vitamin Z, you seem like a kindred spirit - Rule 2 and 3 especially are tenets after my own heart. Rule 3 especially links to my idea about not taking crap - Rule one however i would disagree with. It makes yyou sound a bit like an evil genius.

I think that in most school societies the aim is to spread your scope as wide as possible - i would reccomend that if ever possible do not be a dick to anyone for no reason. Ever.

Even with the nerdyest guy in school, try to treat everyone with the same jokey, nice attitude. You want everyone (and i mean everyone) to say - 'yeah he's popular but still a cool guy'. Some of the hottest girls are those who are nerds themselves. Reputation comes by referral, therefore try to get everyone giving you good references.

School doesn't have to be dog eat dog if you're the alpha of the pack. And people will love you if once you are the alpha, you throw a bone to the pups every now and then.

(sorry for the extended dog metaphor)

Harem x

I would also like to add to my earlier post about school societies that one should never peacock - the aim is to fit in, not get away from the norm. I essence, stand out by fitting in.

I agree and disagree with this post. Yes to peacocking - No to overkill. I usually peacock by wearing something other people are seldom seen wearing, usually hoody cardigans or denim jackets (they're relatively rare in Singapore). Of course, I also agree to the part about standing out by fitting in. Especially when the first impression you give people would be you're just "another ordinary guy", but then you surprise them with your level of confidence and cocky funny attitude. It's real effective, I like.

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hi people, singaporean here too, turning 18 so i understand whats the fuss with the school social ladder etc.

in school, quickly lead yourself to be number 1. great with the guys. this is something im great at - i make friends with all the guys as much as possible - gangsters, puas, afcs, nerds - i conquer them all. i mean come on, how hard is it to become alpha among guys? its so easy i dont even get a kick out of it.

then, go flirt with all the girls. difficult when you first start, but dont wait. just quickly establish great friendships with them. rmb that in school relationships can happen just by being really great friends so no worries if you can.

great to meet SG PUAs here! when can we meet up people?