there's this chick at work who's been wanting to go out on a date me for the longest. last night i accepted to go out with her. but there's a hired gun i've been gaming that i haven't closed with yet. they work in the same department. they're not really close, just cool co-workers.

i dont want to ruin the chances with the hired gun. and i dont want anything more than friendship with the other chick. im also concerned with her bragging about it later on making it seem like i actually dig her. do i go out with the other girl or not? or should i go out with her to find out more info about the hired gun?

never been in this situation, need some advice.
and yes i know it's sometimes bad to date women from work.
what should i do yall? thanks very much in advance...

My opinion is either get the one you want or dont mess with girls at work

if you go for the one you want you gotta risk it to win it by which i mean, go up to her and just game her to go out with you. if she does and you did everything right when girl UG (lets call the one you like HB and the one you dont like UG) asks when your date is you can respond wiht something like "Oh didnt HB tell you? im going out with her..." or something which wont hurt her and make it seem like its UG fault that your going out with HB, you gotta turn the tables and manipulate man!!

the second option is making them both your friends or possible a threesome. i think that dating a girl from work who you like can be fun cuz u can fuck during work hours. but if it goes wrong, your screwd cuz u gotta work with her so dont make it a nasty breakup if you in it for a serious relationship.

ANOTHER option is getting HB into bed and becoming bed buddies while you date UG, incase you dont want to date UG you can just keep HB as a bed buddy that way it wont be awkward if you cut the relations off

hope i helped

-Philos

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