aight so i gamed this HB8 at the club on friday. She finally asked for my number by the end of the night. She text me the following tuesday this is how it went

HB8: Hi Benny how are
Me: aight jus chillin at work u?
HB8: coo.. im bored i hate my job
Me: lol that sux, watchu do?
HB8: I inspect glass
Me: Damn betchu get mad headaches at the end of the day lol
HB8: lol... watchur job and do you have a facebook
Me: firefighter, gave her my facebook

I haven't recieved a text since she added me on facebook though. Am i playing this the wrong way should i wait her out or should i try and talk to her?

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probably should have made her work for the facebook. she got it to assess you as a partner. there's stuff on facebook game out there by the way. but anyway open her again with something interesting, don't let it go stale, and remember you're meant to be the one making the moves i.e asking for HER number.

"watchur job" is a shit test so ya might've said something like "cleaning the gum off the chairs at the cinema" to disarm it

I agree completely with the go out and get her attitude. If you want it you should definetely make a move and not let any bond she felt to you deminish. At the same time you dont want to come on strong or desperate, both similar to a bad cologne and like that cologne, nobody wears it well. So some form of balance is key. However you seem to have been playing the waiting game after she showed some obvious interest, I would recommend embracing the opportunity and take a stand. Shoot her a text sometime late in the week and facilitate a situation to bring you two together during the weekend. Be yourself and confident and things generally flow in the right direction. If you find yourself at all doubfull about your abilities just simply sit back and in your head know that "im awesome and she is nothing". Best of luck.

Ok... i gotchu both, defintently need to work on my self confidence a bit.. but i see where you are comming from with the balance between going after watchu want and waiting for it to come to you.

I took watchu said and worked it into my game

Me: hey wassup
HB: hey how u was ur weekend, i haven't talked to you
Me: blah
hb: blah
Me: You should come down on friday and eat wit me and the homies
HB: well, i don't know if i can make it down there that early, plus i wantchur cooking u said it would make me fall in-love.
Me: lol u damn right it will... well i gotta bounce ill hitchu up later

So where do you think i stand now?? I think im pretty close to a closed deal??? I jus don't wanna fuck my cards up lol u feel me.

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I like the confidence but there is no such thing as closed deal so dont let that get to you. Keep up with what your doing, I get the feeling your text convos would benifit from you talking a more commanding role. For instance when you said "you should come down and eat with the homies" try working stuff like "so what are you doing friday...oh i know your coming to eat with me and my friends". Women dont like to admit it but as a general rule they like the guy to take charge and this shows you arent afraid to and know what your doing, its a great display of confidence and that is after all like crack to women. Happy hunting.

HELLA WORKED lol... im learnin this PUA its a great thing lol

thanx THF

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