Ok so I'm taking a history course in college and the past few lectures this cute girl has been sitting right next to me and the first time I casually opened a few weeks ago. (before I started studying PUA again). I completely forgot what I said but it was something about buying the book for the course joking that I had one and she didn't yet. I only see her once maybe twice a week in class, sometimes she skips or I'll skip class.

However I missed a class this week and the other day I went to class and she did too and sat right next to me again, and I was like "buy that book yet?" with a smile and she said "noo" embarrassed and I shook my head ect. and then lecture started (small classroom so you can't really get away with talking during lecture).

So after Professor stops speaking at the end of the lecture, I turn to her and ask and she asked me something at the same time and I paused and asked her what she was going to say, and she asked if she could borrow a copy of my notes (that I take on my computer) and I said coincidentally I was going to ask the same thing (since I missed the previous lecture) and she said sure so we exchanged e-mails.

I said I'll either respond tonight or the weekend if I don't hear from you ect. and she said she may be busy ect.

I realized after though I shouldn't have said when I'll respond but too late for that.

I haven't sent her an e-mail and I haven't received one either. It's still 3 days until the next class so I have some more time to kill too.


My question is, what would you suggest I approach this.

Since we didn't even exchange names I was waiting hoping she would respond first asking for the notes and I'd say.

"Before I hand them over I need to know your name and a copy of your notes "



However if I have to respond first, what should I say? How should I approach her in class next time? I'm still new at cocky/funny via text,IM,email ect. I've done it naturally before but lately I've been failing so I need some pointers.

Also I was thinking I'd rip out a piece of paper and play tic tac toe with her or something during class.

She's always texting someone else on her phone a lot during class too so I know she's not terribly engaged in the course material.

Thanks guys.

in my 1.6 year in collge ive learned that every single girl has a bf. keep her as a casual school freind and see if she has a bf then go in for a date, but dont ask her, invite her.

So should I be casual/normal in the e-mail like im not even interested?