Ok , so im realy new to the PUA community , and i looked it up because i seem to have some problems, so this is also kind of my introduction.
Unlike some guys whose posts i read here, i have never made an actual pick up. An interesting thing I descovered while researching is that all of my relationships were made as if I had followed these instructions to the letter, and I had never before seen them. I thought this to be some natural feeling for playing the Game, but if that had been the case , i clearly wouldn't have written these first two lines.
I am not a shy person. Realy im not. Im talkative (sorry if I just invented a word), i have an excelent sense of humor ( followed by my neverending modesty) and a lot of people I like to call friends ( sometimes they don't hit me when I do so).
I had only one notable (real) relationship by now. While reading Mystery's book I realised that my opening was very good , and everything else perfect.
Now here is the sad part.
Several times in Mystery's book he notes: "The woman will never take responsibility for what happened. It's all up to you."
OK now the thing was that I played the thing so good that she ( a girl easily a 9)
ASKED me if I wanted a kiss.
Kill me.... Now.... Ofc, the story would not have a twist if I had sayed Yes. It would be a happily ever after. I simply paniced. I had no idea what I was thinking and I sayed something like :" No , i was just kidding" . As most of you realise , in that moment my Survival and Reproduction value plummeted like......... A thing that realy REALY plummets. Is there ANY WAY to: 1.Prepare myself so I dont do such and idiotic thing again.
2.Kill myself painlessly (to all anti-suicide people - this is a joke don't flame)
3. Get my value up again?

its not that bad, everybody falls while riding a bike once in a while.

here's what you're going to do: call her, invite her out.

meet her, say this:

you: "hey, remember when you asked if i wanted to kiss you and i said no?"

her: "*nervous laughter* haha yes! that was so mean!"

you: "what i actually meant was "yes"... see that was opposite day, you didn't know that? *mock scoff*"

at this point her mind will be tumbling at the absurdity of it all, now is the time to swoop in for the kill.

important points to remember:

basically what you've done is the mother of all accidental negs. you now have negative credit with her which you can now spend on positive credit. meaning call her up and act really enthusiastic about meeting her. this will throw her for a loop because, to her, you weren't attracted to her based on what you said. keeping her guessing pumps buying pressure, ergo one more step towards end game content

Will try , but i feel like the problem isn't that it was a neg, as much as it showing my fear and inexpirience , thus destroying the image of an alpha male.