Aight so basically here's the main point's to cut a long story short.

- Known who she was for about 1 1/2 years.
- Known her for about 3 months.
- Already kissed but when we were both drunk.
- Number closed through Facebook.
- Never spoke on a phone call & we only talk when i send the first text message & we went up to 4 weeks without talking until i finally reached out again but she's always interested in my texts but only responds when theres a question to be answered.
- We've been on 2 dates but haven't kissed on those dates (To a bar & the movies).
- Recently, she started flaking out (2 days in a row). First excuse was she wasn't up for going out & second was she was out of town for the weekend.
-Also, she has a very close friendship with two girls & everything revloves around them. It's always we this, we that.
- Most important point is we don't live in the same city. About 30 minutes apart & only get to see each other about twice a month or 3 times at most.
- Lastly, she puts on a front around me. Ive seen her dance & drink in a club but when we went to a bar she refused both & puts on im a good girl front.

& i forgot to mention, the hard thing for me is that i kinda devolped feelings for her. So it's difficult for me to go days without texting & etc. But i dont know how she feels at all.

Now, my question is what's the deal with her? Why is it i always have to start the communication? & is she getting bored or playing a game? Just need some advice on what ya'll think i should do.

I see what you mean bro! She is getting bored. You should have pulled the trigger when you had the chance. Back off. Wait a while. Get back in, wash, repeat...

Yeah, I agree she is getting bored. But wouldn't waiting kill it off? Shouldn't i do something crazy to reignite the attraction? But if waiting is the best thing how long should i wait? cause i tried waiting last time & went a month without any communication made from her.

Waiting doesnt kill it off. Depends on how long you wait of course. If you start grinding now you will lose. If you wait and return you can have a fresh start...