First off, hello to everyone, this is my first post.

So here is my story... I'm in a 7 yr. relationship w/ a woman I love. We get along extremely well, I still feel extremely attracted to her, but I travel a lot on business and as of lately have discovered my PUA side...

I'm very clear to her as to my fidelity-ethics, and she knows I have slept with other women when spending a lot of time away from home (sometimes up to 6 months)... I, by the way, give her the same liberty (which she doesn't seem ever to want to take).

After this intro., here's the deal - I went out to a club (something I never do), and met this gorgeous, sexy, DELICIOUS young girl... I eyed her for the whole night, and saw she was deeply attracted to me. I let her reject a couple of guys and approaced her slowly, and as she rejected yet another time a stalker, I whispered in her ear "want me to get rid of this guy for you"? With that I opened the night, we danced, and eventually I got to talk to her and we kissed. She was the conservative type and although clearly interested in me, was not easy even to kiss, let alone get touchy with.

Here's where things get messed up - We didn't have sex (she was a young conservative Jewish I later discovered), but we went out the next day - I think she might still be a virgin!!! But, despite the age difference, her joviality amazed me, and I am extremely attracted to her. It's not romantic, I'm sure about that, but she's very pleasant to be around, and VERY VERY charming (more so than beautiful).

I left town, but I want to keep gaming her from a long distance... She showed herself interested in me, VERY DEEP LOOKS, very interested in conversation, very sensual/sexual moments (although much less kissing the second time around, we got to talk and know each other a lot better, and I feel the net-value was positive). I sent her a message as soon as I left, a joking "A sensual kiss to a beautiful lady. Had a great time, let us not lose contact!"... Do you guys think this is a total waste of time and efforts?? Is there any way I can get this girl to remember me given the long distance??? Is there any way I can continue being honest about my OTHER relationship and still take this girl into deeper waters, i.e. get more physical with her, being as deviously honest as possible, and letting her know I don't desire seriousness?? Can I possibly maintain a long-distance intimate relationship, after two nights???


HELP GUYS!!!

Leave her on a high note every time you speak. Don't talk to much on the phone or it gets awquard because you end up having nothing to say. Put a few call backs down for next time you see her and i'm sure it will work out fine.

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