so i went out with a chick today, we went to a lake and just walked and talked.. no awkward silences part.. after that we went to a restaurant and after that i gave her a ride home and when she was getting out of the car i said
"i had a very good time, hope you too"
her: "yeah i had a great time thanks"
me: (as she turned around to leave) wait, come here
she turned back around facing me and went for the kiss.. we made out for a bit and i said "okay, that's enough" and she giggled and left.

now what should i do? call her? text her?
how do i f-close next time if she is a very good girl, i mean, her parents are pretty harsh with be home at 9pm blalalblalbla.. you know good girl. so since i live with parents and same with her, my car would be the only place sounds good to me though but the question how...

You should wait atleast 2 days, make her wait for you. and then give her a call. Calls are always good. Let us know how it went dude

dopey

i dunno.. i heard that waiting random amount of time is not the key. I remember reading about it somewhere that you call whenever you feel like you should.

What I did this morning (after hanging out with her yesterday) was sending her a text message:
me: "congratulations"
her: "lol for what?"
me: "i was just thinking of u. congratulations =)"
her: hasnt responded yet..

do you think was that a good move? now should i call her to hang out or something?

Hmm, I didn't mean a random amount of time I meant enough to get her thinking about you and wondering why you haven't contacted her yet. I'd make her text me rather than let her play the game. The way she hasn't responded to your kind text makes it seem like she is playing the game on you. Good luck dude x

oh man.. she replied that she was flattered but then said what she feels and she said she is not ready for a bf bla blabla.. i didnt want her as a gf i just wanted to fuck her.. what to do?

Tell her you understand, that you should be friends ..
Take things slow, see where they go..

i told her to shut up about the bf thing and forget that she mentioned it. and said that i just enjoy being around her and that 2 people together doesnt necessarily mean bf and gf. and she replied:
sounds to me that its more friends with benefits.
i said a line form don juan's movie:
"i give a woman pleasure, if she accepts it. if she does, that will be the best pleasure she will ever get."
she never replied.

i feel like a complete idiot but whatever its funny looking back at all my stupid mistakes.
its been a day already that i havent talked to her, but my plan tomorrow is to call her and be like:
"hey, this is superman calling, i heard you needed to be rescued."
she will probably say: "hhh yeah right.."
and i will make something up from there..
if she doesnt pick up... ill leave a message i guess

It is good you're willing to go out and take some risks and make some mistakes. Just make sure you're learning from the things that did not work as well as you wanted them to (though remember you might just be using it in the wrong situation)

For me I've found texting cocky/funny stuff can work but it is usually not as effective as actually saying those things in person because facial expressions, tone, and body language play an important role in giving the right message.

But we've all been there before... feeling stupid after sending some text. Just make sure next time (especially starting out with a girl) she knows where you're coming from through face to face conversations.

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