So, here I'll make a long story short.
About 3 months ago, a girl added me on myspace, we started chatting, and we met up like a month later in person.
We kissed the first time we went out, and kept it at that pace for like 2 weeks, until she said we should get to know each other more as friends, to see if there can be something more in the future.
So, now its 2 months since I've known her in person, we basically act the same, when together, except no kissing.
We're like always hugged, but like really close, couple hugging, me against the car and she is like right on top of me.
From the time she said we should only be friends, there was a day when she came to my house and we almost had sex.
Then from that day it went back to just friends, then about 3 weeks later, I gave her a flower arrangement and we kissed yet again, and she even sent me a text later that night "Thanks for your details, heres a hug for you and a kiss like the one right now n.n"
That was about 2 weeks earlier (from today)
The next time I saw her, I kissed her but only like peck kisses, and she gave me a birdie kiss when she was going inside her house.
So, now this week, something happened, and a guy she used to see told her he didn't wanted to see her, not even as a friend anymore. So she got sad, and locked up in her room all day.
I went to visit her, but she didn't picked up the phone and I stayed chatting with her mom for about 2 hours.
Now, yesterday... I saw her again..
And at the end of the day I was like "give me a kiss"
And she said no, because she likes to do things right, and she doesn't likes to kiss someone that is not her boyfriend, or someone she is "seeing"
Some friends say thats an indirect approach so I tell her to be my girlfriend, but I don't think she is just ready for that now, or to start dating with me. So I think from now on I'm just gonna play it cool, like before we met, and well, try to make her happy, and whatnot, the attraction is there, I think, I just need to wait until she feels "whole" again.
But sometimes I get confused, like... the last 3 times I saw her, she was showing IOI's just like the first day we saw each other.
She was playing with her hair while listening to me talk, and even in my car, she was turned to the side to see me talking playing with her hair.
Is it possible that a girl still shows IOI even though its been 2 months, and well I know she likes me, but maybe theyre not IOIs and maybe she was just playing with her hair, she also plays with my hair a lot, when we're hugged she like tucks my hair behind my ear, and just runs her hands around my hair, like if she was doing an IOI on hers.
Anyways.. to the point...
I know I must wait, for her to be ready for something again, but in that time, I also want to make her go crazy about me, like, build more attraction, she says she also now has a feeling for me, a feeling of love, so probably attraction is not a matter now, but making that feeling stronger.... Thats what I want to do, and no, I don't want to "move on" .. I have many girls that I could already be girlfriends with, but I like this one.
I want some advice on just... making that feeling of loving me, even stronger in her, she's gonna put me on free texting, so even if I don't see her, I'll be able to talk to her all day through texting ..
Well, any tips? I hope I made myself clear. And thanks in advance =)