So today i went and done a bit of xmas shopping with my mum so after a bit i said lets just pop in for a bite to eat at this french restaurant called cafe rouge. So sat down and i saw this hb7-7.5 waitress and instantly just smiled and caught her eye and then we got served by this waiter who took our drinks then shortly afterwards she took over.

Wondered whether she asked him to do our table because of the initial IOI's we gave each other?

So obviously the most annoying thing was that i was with my mum unable to really get anything going or start conversation even though she noticed the ioi's herself!

So after we finished the meal i was left at the table when she went to the toilets so the waitress then approached and i gave her my card she was smiling constantly at me so i started a little convo with her which lasted only a couple mins if that.

Now should i have asked for her number with the constant looks and her smilling at me I was getting?

If so how would you have put it? just be straight and ask or what? I'm trying to do more day game recently but i find its not really easy to ask for numbers as its not a normal situation in meeting someone as opposed to at a club.

I just think it would of been well embarrasing getting rejected in a restaurant especially with the one time of the year that i go shopping with my mum!!!

Short answer... YES!
I know exactly what you mean, basically you have to make it normal. If you see a guy who is successful with women this is something he does, he doesn't even consider rejection he goes in and asks her in a way it almost seems as if she would be the one who is embarrassed.


I laughed at this, it would be embarrassing but for how long? chances are you won't ever see any of these people again except from... well maybe your mum, unless she decides to throw you out of the house and never speak to her again for being such a tool.

To put it into perspective, a situation is only as embarrassing as you make it really, ive seen guys brush the most horrific moments off like they don't mean nothing. Whilst others have turned the very same moments into the ultimate cringe. Example, guy falls down, guy gets back up, guy laughs. Guy falls down, guy looks about to see if anyone noticed, guy gets all embarrassed and walks away quickly. Once you realize this and realize that rejection is painless you won't fear it at all.

The three best guys I've met all told me the same thing:

The number one thing to master is to be okay with rejection.

They get rejected more often than anyone because they go for it more often. As for your mom, I'd be willing to bet she'd root for you and would likely be proud of your guts whether you got the number or not. Next time a situation like this comes up, go for it!