The best way I've found to do this is to “ping” which is saying something sexual to see her reaction. One way I do this is by asking “are you adventurous?” and sometime’s she’ll say “hmm what kind of adventurous?” with a tone that indicates she’s thinking dirty thoughts. That would be an example of a small ping. A larger ping during the day can be something like “so I read in a magazine that people really don’t want to talk about jobs and school and stuff, what they really want to talk about is sex. So my question to you is how long before you feel comfortable talking about sex?”. If she says she feels comfortable then you start talking about sex or ask her sexual questions like “what’s your favorite positions?” Try it you’ll be surprised how many girls will say they are comfortable talking about sex right away!

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well this doesn't prove or help in anyway

Actually it kind of does. I like his transition about sex talk. I'll give it a shot.

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Pings! Brilliant. So I was thinking of a couple of good words with double meanings that should illicit some sort of physical reactions thus revealing their comfort level.
Words:

Play, games.

So i'm a pretty playful guy, I like to have a good time what sort of games do you like?

Compliment her on something expensive they might have. Earrings, Guccis Shoes, prada purse.

"That looks expensive you must be used to getting what you want." Neg and ping in one.

These sort of things should be pretty good at getting a girl in the right state of mind. I hope at least.

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I kinda agree with abdul, this don't really frame her sexually....they may do it but very little. I actually do A LOT of sexual framing, because I want to get my lay as fast as I can so if you say something like


(which is not a sexual ping at all, you are just asking if she likes to do exciting things, but if she said what KIND of adventurous then it would be a sexual ping) comparing to the one i sometimes use (which is much more powerful):

Me: I'm V what's your name btw?
HB: Rachel
Me: wait...are you serious? I know a girl whos name is rachel, she is sooo sexually open minded, which is really good, because many North American are closed an reserved about their sexuality, but she is a totally different story....etc..
(and don't ask her if she is the same way because she may reject the frame)

So here I'm actually framing her as an open minded sexual person and even rewarding her for being so.

Oh and btw:
good try but that is not a sexual ping at all, you are actually making it worse and framing her as someone who gets what she wants but not in a sexual way but more in an "buy me stuff" way....

But if you said something like: "you know you remind me of someone who goes for what she wants even if her best friend disagree with her, because she is an independent person who goes for what she wants!" Get it ?

You are on the right track artisan but you have to make your pings MORE SEXUAL so the frame stays!

Cheers

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