Evening, gentlemen!

There's this girl who I'm pretty sure likes me, coz she always wants to (or seems to want to) come to any 'events' I organise. I've been for lunch and a drink with her, we have good rapport, and it's all good on that front.

HOWEVER, I admit I'm not great with kino, as in I don't use it nearly as much as I should, but it's always natural when I do. Either way, It's always me doing the kino, as in there's very little, if any, in return from her.

I'm guessing I just need to up the kino, but does anyone know why she's like this? It just feels awkward, because I feel as if my kino isn't wanted.

WHAT DO?


30 internets to whomever answers me best.

Ciao!

you can practice kino on male friends...

just gently touch the shoulder, back, upper arm for not more than 3 sec... depending on comfort you can touch her lap and hands.


i have a few kino tricks to see if she wants me to kiss her and builds comfort.


an example:

*she came to your party*

You "*touch her shoulder gently* aaw, thanks for comming, really, i was worried you wouln't come ;D "

I have a couple thoughts on the matter.

1)Some people just aren't that into physical touch, for whatever reason, I dk. I was one of them; however,

2)This sounds like a passive IOI to me, she doesn't reject the kino or anything and coupled with always wanting to go to your events, yeah I would say passive IOI. She just may not be that comfortable returning kino.

Alright, here are a few of the best areas on a girl for kino:
1)Lightly touch the small of her back, too high is just friendly, too low, you're just grabbing some ass. Just place your hand/fingertips there when walking her through the door or into another room. It's like in dance, you're leading her.

2)Back of the neck, light massage at where the head joins the neck - light, it's an area that can easily become uncomfortable if you're too rough with it.

3)Shoulder massage - just tell her, "you look tense come here" give her a shoulder massage.

I like these cause I don't know too many girls who would have a problem with getting a free massage, especially from a guy that they potentially like.

Hope this helps,

- TD out

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