Great responses guys! I have used a few of these techniques before. I now have a more specified setting. I have established comfort with her i think? I did a hashrun this weekend. If you don’t know what that is, visit the link. I met this girl the night before at a friends house. There was a little kino made then, but not a lot. I HAVE TO STRESS THE POINT THAT SHE IS THE SISTER OF A BUDDY OF MINE!

When the hash started to did the kino. The whole time we were running we were flirting, and just having a good time. I kept my frame pretty well. She kept giving me IOI's the whole time. For instance smacking my ass, taking pictures with me the whole time. She even posted them to facebook. The part i think i stumbled the most was

ME: "You are the sexiest bumblebee I've ever seen" In a playful manner.

HER: "Are you hitting on me"

ME: "Well... do you want me too?"

HER: Lets go catch up to everybody.

I don’t really know what this meant. After that she was still continually giving me kino, and IOI’s, sharing a beer for instance. The rest of the way we were like this. One thing I thought I did alright was use her hat. She was wearing a hat during the hash, and she asked

HER: Can I put my hat in your back pack?
ME: What, look at how heavy that thing is.
HER: Oh come on, its just a hat.
ME: Turned my back, and she crammed it in.

Later, a friend of mine hosted a Pajama party and she was there. I don’t know what I said but when I got there I walked up to her from the side and put the hat on over her face. We hugged, and I went to get a beer. Like I said, she was giving me kino the whole time I was with her really, but there was no real good place at the hash, or the party to isolate. I tried once at the party to get her to smoke a bowl with me, she said of course. When we went to smoke all she wanted to do was dance, so we never got a chance to get comfy on the couch.

As the night was coming to and end we exchanged numbers and she told me I was a fun guy.

While I was on facebook, I told her that it would be awesome to come to Vegas. I just needed a place to stay. She said she had a room for me to stay in if I drove up. Did I meantion she works at the RIO, and she would give me a club tour when I was there.

HER: You could stay at my place, I have an extra room
ME: That would be awesome. I hope you know Im going to take you up on it.

HER: Awesome, Hey I don’t have your number, txt me it.

ME: MY NUMBER

The conversation went on and it seems that if I don’t go up and visit within the next couple weeks she won’t have the room.

Here’s where you guys come in. Give me everything you got. No holds bard. But don’t just insult, leave some advice on what I did wrong, and what I can do when I go visit this chick.

Peace,
RAD

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hash_House_Harriers