1st hanging out: he was in the library cubicle sitting acorss from me. I approached him and started talking fluff ( what classes hes taking, how he likes our college). he says that he is a shy guy and doesn't have any friends here. it's hard to believe since he is talkative and afterwards i invited him to walk around campus and chatted more. before we depated, he asked me if i'm always in the library and i said yes. he said i'll see u thursday...

thursday comes along and hes a no show...2 weeks go by. i see him in the hallway and he says hello as im heading to class.

2nd time hanging out: I approach him as he is sitting in the student lounge. Hes reading and i say hey whats up. we chat for a bit 30 mins. he plays with his phone. i try talking about his phone hoping he will number close, but he doesn't. after he goes to the bathroom, he comes back and asks me if i want to go for a walk. we walk down around campus and sit. chat 10 mins and head to class.


should a girl like me make the next move to hangout? i mean whats your take on girls? should a girl make a move or should i just wait for him to make the move? i'm not looking to hookup with him, just maybe go on a date...

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Maybe he really is a shy guy. The only way you're going to find out is if you take the initiative yourself. Yeah try to get his number. Then maybe he'll take the hint.

You can try and asking him to hang out. But not to sound negative here but I don't think he will say yes. As I have a feeling something is up with him. Because I also find the shy guy thing a bit odd with the way he is acting. But try anyway and ask him out and see what happens.

why don't u think he will say yes?

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Either he is way to shy, and in my experience, shy people tend to be really bad in bed.
Or he is just an ignorant ass, I've seen you, you are a good looking girl Bombshell, so I would say ignore him. If he is really interested he will come to you!

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You know I'm not completely sure I'm convinces he'll say no. I have a friend who is somewhat shy around girls. He won't make a move. Ever. I've had girls tell me they are into him and then a week later they say they don't find him attractive anymore because he is just unresponsive to them in many ways. It's not that he doesn't try to flirt with them, he just isn't good at it. I've tried to talk to him but he just doesn't seem to care. If he is happy like that, then fine.

All I'm saying is, I know guys who won't make moves. Do they ever get anywhere with girls? Sometimes they do, but they most of the time they miss out on a lot of girls too. Don't take it personally, maybe the guy just truly doesn't know how to flirt or be as social as you are expecting.

If you feel comfortable taking the lead, then go for it. He may not be alpha or aggressive, but it doesn't mean that you won't like him if you get to know him. I say if you want to hang out with him, simply imply it or subtly ask. Tell him you are going to a party and he should come with you. If he doesn't, don't worry about it and find a new guy. You haven't invested too much time or value into him so it shouldn't be a problem to move on if that is needed.

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The guy doesn't ALWAYS have to make the first move, ya know....mind you we're in the 21st century, not livin in the 50s.

I think you should just say "let's fuckkkk"

It'll work - trust me.

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Its mostly a gut feeling I had when I read your post about him. Because for a guy that is suppose to be shy he doesn't seem to be that shy. As a shy guy will not be that talkative when you first talk to them unless you been talking to them for like 2+ hours or talk about a topic they are greatly interested in. And a shy guy will not just ask a girl he just met to walk with him like that either.

Say "Wana come to my place and fuck?"

100% chance he will say yes.

Guys are easier to game than girls.

Cba to go into the Evolutionary psychology of it, but trust me.

LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL hell yeah.

Unless the girl was a 6 and down I wouldn't say no.

I mean she has to be hot, so if she has that down NO guy will say no.

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I disagree that him being shy would make him "less talkative" when you talk to him. I used to be super shy, but only with girls, and with people I first met and being shy really only as to do with opening. Like if a girl came up and talked to me I wouldn't stumble for words, I could talk to her just fine. but if someone was like hey go meet that person over there, or just say hi to them, I'd say no fucking way.

I think this guy is just shy and if you made the first move he would probably love it. Maybe he just has no experience at all. And some guys have been saying on this post to tell him "hey let's fuck" and I see what they're saying cause if a really hot girl came up to me and said that it would be hard to say no. but since no girl ever does that if you do that he might think you are crazy. and who knows maybe he's a virgin so then he would really not know what to think.

just my opinion.

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Lol, his friends wouldn't believe him.

"Seriously guys, she just asked me to! She was so hot!"

I dont think you should ask him , i dont want to c you getting blown out; if you dnt want to hook up why bother its a waste of you're time but staying on point here
Instead you should suggest for a hang out

You: Im going to the mall tomnorrow , why dont you tag along it will be fun
Him : yes , Maybe or No
You: Are you sure im taking my very cute girlfriend with me ; you can add more if you like to this part

Now the point of this is to obviously know where you're at with this guy , to c if its just you or if it's just him

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Why don't you just say 'I'm bored this sucks. want to come back to my room?'

It's pretty straight forward what this means but not as blatantly obvious and slutty as 'lets fuck!'. If a cute girl said this to me and I was bored I would go with it. If he's shy just be confident for him.