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First off, I'm new here so I hope this is the right section.
My question is about getting a girls number. I'm in college, and I have no problems approaching girls, talking to one person. or a group of people. The one part of my "game" that sucks is my mid-game. I find that almost all my situations with girls that I meet are in groups. Either I'll be with friends or they are with friends.
I'm at a gigantic university so if I don't get a girls number that I've just met, I might not see even see them again. Or if I do it's like a month or more later. So how do you guys go about asking for numbers in group settings or where you're at a party, tailgate, football game, etc? I'd feel creepy or just awkward asking a girl for her number in front of everyone when my friends and I decide to leave or when shes taking off.
So basically, what should I do or look for if I'm trying to get a girl's number the first time I meet her?
Isolate. In situations like you describe, get the group talking about something, then start a quiet conversation with the girl and just slip her your phone. Also, get a signal going with your friends so that they know to distract the group and then get her number. I'd use a verbal phrase, just so you don't thow off body langauge.