Hi all,

I'm new to the forums and am not looking to become a PUA, but more-so just wanting to expand the toolbox a little to get a slightly better success rate when I'm out.

My problem is not with initial attraction nor with IOIs, last week several women I approached asked MY name seconds after casually opening before I even asked for their's, which I'm assuming is a solid IOI. One such girl opened me with "what's your name?" before I even acknowledged her presence.

My problem is knowing where to go from there once a woman asks your name and you tell her within seconds of approaching. Do you bypass negs because she's already obviously interested? Would a neg cause you to go backwards and she'd think you were an asshole since she's already asked for your name? Do you acknowledge the IOI and move straight to demonstrations of higher value?

How would you progress a set to a k-close when a woman asks your name within seconds of approaching? Because I seem to have trouble with the follow-through, especially in loud clubs when it's hard to get a woman's attention for long.

Ruse

Hi!

Don't neg her. There's already initial attraction from her side so that's a good thing. What you need to do is to go into qualification mode and start to screen her. Begin with small hoops like: "what do you do for fun" and build it up with things like: "what separates you from the rest of the girls". If you have sufficient attraction, the girl will start to qualify herself to you.

During the qualification you can push & pull her for generating even more attraction. After a solid qualification you can move into comfort talk for establishing a deeper connection with the girl. Isolate her for this, so you can Kino escalate and kiss-close.

I suggest you read a manual like Mystery Method. It explains all the phases: opening, transitioning, attraction, etc.

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I would actually suggest you watch his videos more than the book.

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