Hey guys,

Recently I have found out I am better at sarging after a few alcoholic drinks. THERE IS NO WAY I WOULD RECOMMEND PEOPLE TO THINK THEY NEED A DRINK TO BECOME GOOD AT SARGING. I'm posting this topic because I need help on conversation. With a drink I am extremely talkative (also fun to talk to). Without drink, I am very quiet.

Much needed help!

Magic-J

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hey bro,

this is just like I am.
I have a few bevies and I am good to go but the truth is that after the effect wears off, the problem remains so what do you do on day 2, have a few drinks too?

My tip is to go out and forget the drink. Prepare some lines beforehand.
Record yourself on a webcam saying them and practise your delivery. Do it until you have memorized them.
Work out your patter until you don't have to think about it. So, even if you get nervous when approaching, you will be fine and be able to say what you want to.

when you run out of your canned stuff- my tip is just to try to have a conversation. I mean don't think of it in terms of trying to talk to the babes to get laid just have a conversation and work on this aspect for a few weeks. Give yourself space to make mistakes and work at it.

good luck

all alcohol does is let you do what you've been wanting to do. it's all fear if you're having some trouble before the drink, try more exercises on talking in the mirror or practice ur shit on chicks in the super market, thats what i do, and being talkative isnt always good i've found, cuz once u get her interested and go quiet it makes her initiate the conversation and lead it where she wants so you can think up some more shit to say. just my two cents

cheers guys. really helped. I'm goin to a bar this friday night, gonna practice there

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Yeah man don't get to much alcohol in your system or you will become a creeper or a sloppy drunk. I like to drink casually at a bar or a club not over do it since I am always in the mood to sarge after listening to music before I go out and when I am getting ready in the morning for class.

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Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

I dont have the source to back up what im about to say but I saw it on a documentairy on dutch tv (was a reliable channel).

Drunk men have this hormone or something radiating from them, being drunk makes you smell (subconciously, sort of, not a real smell/stench, i just dont know how to say it in English) in a way that women subconsciously pick up on it (like pheromones).

A high percentage of women are instantly turned off by it and it will work against you, so getting too many drinks is bad for your game! a few to loosen up, yes, i do that too.

Okay, if a few drinks gives you the a certain level of confidence, then a go nuts dude. Don't get out of control. There's nothing more unnatractive to a woman than a guy who's not in control.

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