I just met this girl and her two friends last night after a football game. The girls seem pretty decent but really only concentrated on the "target" (a bad idea I think) and left the other two talking to each other. It was a LONG walk (30 mins) and after 15 minutes I started running out of things to say, it got dry. It was a little awkward b/c her friends, who I didn't talk to much, were there but I did get the target's number.

I called her 15 mins after getting it to see if she wanted to go to a party I had talked about with them, she said not tonight but "tell me where the parties are in the future."

The girl is a 9, really cute, and I want to see where I can take this.

Any suggestions?

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It was definitely a bad idea only paying attention to your target because being nice to the people in her social circle make the difference between them going

"Wow, that really nice guy just asked for your number"
-----and-------
"That random just asked for your number"

Would I be right in saying that you're in college? If so, I'd use her number for light banter, attraction stuff and then invite her, and her friends to a party. A great line for this would be:

"I feel like I sort of alienated your friends the other night, how about they join us at XYZ"

Therefore you assume that not only she is coming with you to XYZ event, but also acknowledge that you have social knowledge by showing that you understand that you alienated her friends.

Hope I helped, JR.

Greetings gentlemen,

New to the boards. Thought I'd throw out a couple ideas. I like the referencing of accidently alienating her friends, so they should come along as well. Might be a good play. In terms of running out of things to say after 15 minutes, we all get there sometimes. I have about 3 or 4 of the funniest stories people have ever heard ready to go at all moments. It could have been something from 4 years ago, but I pretend like it just happened yesterday. The key is to smoothly segue into it. Let it seem like it just "evolved" out of the conversation. And make sure every story you tell is a DHV. If you want to borrow one of mine, you're more than welcome, just let me know. "Practice telling stories in a charismatic capacity" is my concept. In the freakin mirror in your bathroom. I think it psychologically plays on our childhood bedtime story experiences. "Read it one more time Dad! Just one more time!"

Now, in regards to how to proceed with HB9, can you remember one of the negs you gave her, if any? A joke you shared, or an embarrassing thing that happened to anyone? I always, when making contact again, back-reference something like this, in the attempt to remind her of how she felt that day, the connection you had, and make her laugh immediately. Ex: I borrowed a piece of gum from my target a week ago, telling her my breath was terrible. She laughed. When I called 3 days later, the message I left was this:

"Hey _____, this is that really charming, good looking guy you met at the bar on Tuesday with the really bad breath. I was wondering if you wanted to go out toothbrush shopping with me tomorrow? I'm thinking medium bristle, Oral B, Ocean Blue color. But I need your help."

I don't know. Just an idea. Good luck chief. Thanks for reading guys.

Thanks guys, those suggestions are helpful.

I'll def take other ideas if ppl have them just so I can become better informed.

I'm not used to this strategic PUA thing. But I thought this girl was worth this endeavor.

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