hello PUAs! so let me give you the low down on the situation. im new to this whole thing so im still playing with the things i've learned so far.

Anyways i meet this hot brunette 10, she is my sisters boyfriends sister. we hung out a few times but never just one on one yet. the problem is that i sorta got "oneitis" over this girl (but am proud to say i am slowly getting over it. any way i got her number and i might take her to a rave this saturday, she has never been and says she wants to see what their like.

So she text me today and this is how i carried my text game

i would like to hear any critisism or complements on this, and also what would be a good way to countiue this game to ensure she doesnt flake for the rave and some tips for once we get there.

P.S. she is from greece so that should explain why some of her responsis are a little confusing, and why she doesnt know what some words mean.

Thanks heres the text conversation,


HB: hey! how r?! i found the tattoos! i had them in my wallet...i was sure i brought them with me the other day, i just couldnt remember where i put them!

Dirty:...oohh marlen, you dont have to lie to me... im sure you slaped them on ur butt days ago! but its okay, ill let you slide just this once.

HB: hahaha no its true i have them...youll see!!

Dirty: I just your twin!

HB: My twin?!

Dirty: ya shes just like you! Cute but a little annoying, and she wont stop staring at my ass!

HB: hahahaha oh come on she cant be just like me...where is she?!

Dirty: Woahh!! relax marlin im gona tell you where she is, im afraid you might hurt her and i can tell you're smileing, stop it!

HB: Why on earth would I hurt her?! Fine dont tell me!

Dirty: I just noticed something about you...

HB: What did you notice?!

Dirty: Ive noticed that your a feisty one, i like feitsy girls. its just too bad your not my type.

HB: oh wow, but I dont know what feisty means...

Dirty: Feisty/ adjective: full of animation, energy, or courage; Spirited; spunky; trouble. does that sound like it fits you about right?

HB: Not exactly...my dictionary says, touchy etc. I dont take what people say to me wrong its just that my tone or my expressions make them think of that and i dont mean it like that! when i write "fine dont tell me"...im saying it in a calm way...but thats not how you read it i guess

Dirty: see what I mean "feisty!"

HB: Lol okay okay im very feisty:) all the time:)

Dirty: ya ive noticed

HB: Haha))but im glad you see me friendly))

So please post what you think i would love to hear it!

Thanks,
Dirty.

Seems like your doing a good job.
Depending on if your going to see her again in a nearby future or not,
the next step is naturally for you to just hang-out and do something fun,
witch will give you an opportunity to build some comfort, and do some more push'n pull.

If you're hooking up with txt i suggest you might wanne show some Preselection.
Let say she you ask her if she wants to go for some coffee next week,
let her suggest the day, and then tell her you cant that day cause your busy, suggest another day.

Make her think you're seeing a girl that day, without saying your seeing a girl.

The reason why I suggest this is because there's a big chance she'll put you in straight in the FriendZone. Your almost "family" in a sense and she might be enjoying talking to you, but if show her to much interest you might be fucked.
She might not wanne take any chances with you, cause she's gonna have to see you again due to the relation between your sister and her brother.

I've found that you can show a girl plenty of intrest when it seems you have something else going on... cause then you have turned the whole situtation around and got her thinking: He might just wanne be my friend.. why?

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hey energy thanks for your opionion, i liked what you had to say.

good point with the whole "almost family" thing and how it might make things a little complicated.

also i was wondering what preselection meant?

thanks,
Dirty

Preselection means that girls are more drawn to a guy who's liked and approved by other women. If you're alone on a dancefloor its hard for you to open a HB10, but if she sees you having a good time with another HB10 she'll see that you have value and therefore is more likely to give you a shot.

If the girl your gaming is very hot a lot of guys have hit on her and she is probably used to holding the ball. You need to be the one in charge or she will - in while - realise your value is lower and loose her attraction for you.

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I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

first id like to know the time delay between replies, both to and from her?

always leave a good amount of time between replying to her, you have so much else to do, you are after all an in demand and busy guy!!

you can reward her for good behaviour by replying a bit quicker than usual.

shes expressive which is good when texting.
girls who text a lot of guys know how to appear cold through text when there IS a chance but shes makin u sweat a little bit.

otherwise, good work brother.

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