so i was flirting with this girl, she was def into it. and so to be cute she tried to take my beer from me to take a drink since she didnt have one of her own. i took it as an IOI...but i'm wondering what i could do or say next to tease her or DHV. or to not give up the drink at all. any ideas...???

Usually, if anything gets stolen from me, I gently retrieve said object and have her hold her hand out, then smack it like you're punishing her. (be playful) If she's into you, there woun't be a problem with compliance.

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I'd tease her a bit, calling her an alcoholic and then pretend to give it to her but pulling away at the last second type thing... And then I'd probably walk her to the bar. If she asks me to by her a drink, again, I'd tease her but eventually I'll buy a round.
Now, before you guys get all pissy, let me explain:
The "AFC's buy girls drinks" thing is bullshit.
If a random girl comes up to me and asks for a drink, I'd most definitely say no and start gaming.
But if a girl who you've already been flirting with, who you've already invested in asks and you say "No" then you come off as a cheap bastard. It's also a little hoop. So tease her a bit first and give her your own hoop. I normally walk her to the bar, give her enough cash for what ever she wanted and for what I want and then tell her to order a drink for me as well (and I'm fussy here, like I'd say "A double whiskey in a tumbler with 2 ice cubes" - if she gets it right then she gets cool points, if she stuffs up then I can tease her and tell her that she owes me a round)

The important thing is to stay playfull IMO. I don't think it would be good to leave the deed "unpunished" though. Teasing (Alcholic or Kleptomaniac or being poor) is a good option. Then you could go into, " Alright, since you are so poor I'll give it to you if you tell me what is the wildest thing you ever did?"

Depending on the situation of course, might not be the best one to do in this situation. (Seems like there allready were some attraction).

If a girl that I dont know just grabs my drink and she does this as a sort of "wild and crazy" thing in front of her friends (it happens) I usually just gives her look that says: Where's is your manners?
Then she'll feel bad and give it back.
Then I neg her saying: Looks like you have a cold, why dont you go ahead and keep that drink.
Then to her friends: Is she always like this?

Asking girls if they recently have been sick or are having a cold etc is a great disqualifier. And while implying this they'll try to convince you they are'nt sick, and you can tell them: Well, I dont go around kissing people I dont know anyways, so thats okey.

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Energy, I think thats brilliant

If shes into you she will HAVE to try and convince you that shes not sick, she has absolutely no way out of it. Def using this one mate.

well first thing

1)you take the beer bottle back and then crack it over her head.

If she knocked out then take her home if she not then find another bottle and repeat step 1.

LOL just kidding. I myself would be like

me-" whoa whoa whoa..what do you think you are doing?

HB- blah blah blah

me-" You gotta try alot harder then that to get my drink, How about we find a guy that would be willing to get you a drink, come on* takes her hand and parade her around*

while doing this in a cocky funny matter.I still hold the frame were i dont break down into buying her a drink or even thinkign about it. Infact i worked it sometimes were i get a free drink from her =). this move is pretty bold. I also like NRG idea about the being sick or having "coodies" but i like having fun with this.

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I always get girls taking my shades and its a case of pointing your finger and making strong eye contact, i then usually put out my head to suggest they put them back on me , and 8/10 times they do. Then you break the tension, smile and carry on.

One time i went into a 6 set on the danceflloor. I usually bust in, grab everyones attention, signal that i am going to teach them an amazing dance move....
Then i start doing the macarena, they all laugh, its a good dance floor opener.

One time, this girl literally, took my glasses off me, stood in front of me blocking me from the group and passed them to her other AMOG friend, and it was a complete freeze ou to the whole group, with me losing value by the second.

My afc friend wanted to go in and start rowing with them, and i had to signal him to stay away, as soon as you react to anything , its game over.

I kept my cool, made eye contact with her friends, confusedly looked at them as to signal "why are you guys not cool" and one of the friends got them off her and put them on my head, after a few minutes. They then froze her out and started dancing with me.

It was a vicious freeze out , and i lost value for a while, i could feel it.
But my point is sometimes people are just arseholes, theres not much you can do, but NEVER break your frame and never be affected.

The macarena though, i recommend it;)

I would say "Thats ok...I didn't want that drink anyways..It was starting to hurt the sores in my mouth." then just give her a wink.

Not in my case haha, when I first opened this thread I thought it would be about a girl taking your drink and walking away, my instant response was: "slap her and take the drink back" haha

But because this is not as I though , you SHOULD STOP BUILDING ATTRACTION and START Qualifying HER !

V3nu

Anytime a girl is involved with my drink (whether she is trying to take it, or I'm leaving it with her for a moment as a lock in while I go to talk to someone, smoke a cigarette, etc.) I usually say something about a roofie...

She takes your drink, you stop her and say "Listen, I know I'm really cute and you seem nice but slipping me a roofie is no way to start a healthy relationship... besides you really need to be sneakier about it!"

Or as a lock in "Hey, I'm going to step outside, will you watch this for me?"
HB: "Yeah, sure, blah blah..."
Start to walk away, then stop and give them a look then say something like "Alright wait... there is something about you... you're not going to roofie me right?"
HB: "No, no, blah blah hahah..."
You: "Alright good. I mean, I'm not sure about the long-term effects of that stuff, but if I get roofied one more time, I might just go crazy..."

You can also just mention this to your wing while in set. Like "Hey man, I'll be right back but uh... keep your eye on this one *point to target* I think she might try to slip me a roofie..." Then look at the girl, grin a little, shrug and walk off, maybe making the "I'm watching you" hand gesture...

The whole roofie thing is just playful and it turns the tables as if they're the one trying to pick you up and you're not that interested. It can be used in many situations but usually gets a laugh.

The one HUGE risk: The girl has been roofied before... she might flip out. But I've never run into that before.

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