I've received nearly the same speech from several women. I'm sure many of you have heard it and I'm curious to hear how you've dealt with it. I got hit with by twice in the same month, identical reactions from the girls, treated each the same way, and got two identical results, f-closed each time I've used this.

Everything has gone according to plan and we are back at my place. We are making out and moving closer to sex. She pulls back and looks at me curiously, "I don't know what you're looking for......I'm not looking to jump into anything.....I don't want to be controlled.....I like my freedom....blahzeeeeblahhhh"

So what did she really say?

She doesn't want a needy, clingy, controlling loser like her ex's or most men she meets. Who wants and instant boyfriend because you hook up? Reasonable. Don't start reassuring her and jumping through hoops so you can fuck her. What a turn off you'd look like then. Look at her like you are confused and/or bored by her.

"I really don't know why you're bringing this up....."

"Well, I'm just saying I'm not trying to jump into anything. I mean, I don't know if we should have sex"

"I didn't assume we were....."

"Oh, well...I don't know, ya know, I just like my freedom, and..."

"Is this the speech? It sounds a lil' rehearsed, do you always give it...."

"Oh....whatever, I'm just saying, I want to take it slow......"

"Yeah, do what makes you happy, I'm dating around, it's cool..."

Don't get flustered, tease her for freaking out, act completely unaffected by her speech or the possibility of not getting laid. Go right back and kiss her again nand stay relaxed. Don't hold a conversation about such a trivial silly subject. I can't remember a time this has failed me.

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"I am dating around it's cool" dude that made me cringe when i saw that just isn't right. I can't believe that will work.

Thank you for trying to give back to the community with your informative posts

I only use that when a girl starts to demonstrate she is trying to maintain her freedom or seems scared of being controlled. It's more of saying "I'm dating around....so should you". It's very situational and not something I say at any other point.

Here's why I think it has been wokring so well for me. Once you've become skilled and are F-closing on first meetings, first dates, second dates (real quick) they get a stronger case of LMR and may think you are a player and manipulating them. It removes that fear and just presents honesty above everything else. Subconsciously it says a lot about you sexually and your easy going nature. That all should be getting demonstrated anyway, but like I said very situational. I've said this is a good approach in other posts but it is not something I use every time by far.

It has had a 100% success rate for F-closing ,so far, and puts the woman in a comfortable trusting state with me. Try it in the right situation.

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