Ok, first date was on Wed, went very well, havent spoken since until today. Text convo is as follows.

Me: Hey trouble, hows tricks? x (tricks is just hows things)

Her: Heya, gud ta, just wrkin day n nite at a weddin urgh! ha. ows u? x

Me: Sounds easy, try sitting out in this sun having a bbq, now thats hard work! ha, u better stop thinkin bout me and get back to work kiddo! :p x


And she didnt text back, I didnt expect her to. Now should I text her tomorrow or monday, call or should I wait for her to text?

Don't think too much about texting. If she doesn't reply to a text doesn't mean jack. Maybe she didn't recieve it, maybe she sent one but you never got it. Who knows. Best thing to do is call. Just leave texting for those funny little notes to send her at random times that'll bring a smile to her face. Believe me once you've built enough attraction, gone through comfort and seduction she'll be sending you three times as many messages as you do to her and she'll be wondering exactly the same that you're thinking now.

If you're looking for a response from her then you'll need to word your text carefully. But I wouldn't get into the habit of saying or doing anything that tries to gain a reaction from anyone. Just be cool about things. What you said was fine in your messages. Not everyone is mad about texting and isn't it pretty expensive in the UK? Or is it like where I am where you can send free messages to people on the same network as you.

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Ok thx man, I'll give her a call sometime today.

Erm, it is if you pay as you go, I have a contract, I got an awesome phone, 400 minutes(anytime and network) and unlimited picture/SMS texts to anybody for £30 a month for 18 months.

tell her "I had a blast...etc. (seed for next date)...do you like ice cream and ping pong?"....she wants to know you enjoyed it. Since your so high value she may not feel so great about the date and most likely needs your acceptance. Just like a girlfriend...girls want to be at work bored and receive a message that puts a smile on their face.

Usually I text the girl after the date - say 30 minutes or so - it shows her you did have fun with her and that she was on your mind. I usually tease her a bit in the message about something that happened during the date as well.

I wouldn't suggest always texting her - make her miss you, make her realise that your in demand and your busy - but I think texting is a quick and easy way to keep any girl thinking about you as well as build easy rapport with her.

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