This is my first post. So thanks for reading and comments.

Three nights this week, i found myself in a nice situation. social circle game. a group of bored/boring ppl, and a cute girl and me.

I guess my question is, how do i ramp up the fun vibe? I know the group/attention is ripe for the taking. I actually possessed it for a few minutes tonight. I tried to get this girl to qualify to me by asking her what her three best qualities were. The other girls jumped in and started answering the question. It sparked some conversation and emotion, but the vibing ended quickly.

I am new, so Im working on all aspects of my game right now. But this seems to be my current roadblock. Any suggestions are welcome.

I dont know where else to post this, so I'll just attach it to this post.

Same nite, same girl. I thought I had a little attraction, we were bored. I said, hey, whats in the other room over there? -pool hall or whatev- Oh, ive never been. Want to come check it out with me? -sure-

Stand up, I start walking and looking forward and put my hand back behind me, signaling for her to hold my hand (trying to get that kino flowing). She holds it for just a few seconds and releases.

We walk into other room with me leading, but she immediately sees the bouncer she knows and talks to him. they start to leave.. -im just gonna go check the score of the game-

She comes back, we chat a little bit. She has her arms crossed. You look nervous. Unfold her arms (kino yay). bouncer guy walks through room, tells her to come out for a smoke. She walks after him. I just give up.

Its so hard not to blame it on her! lol. I sooo just want to say.. the problem is with her. totally not true tho. I just need more attraction next time.

Can I get some love? Its my first post. Am i posting in the wrong space? thanks

hey man. Be present in the moment and dont overthink about abt what to say next. Hav some things stacked incase if u run out of things to say. It could be anything, something cool that happened to u , other stories, magic tricks ....jokes.

Try also asking wat did she wanna be when she was 7. My fav..( got it from Mehow) and say something like dont say princess

Palm reading..Girls love this. look at her palm and say interesting. She will be like wat tell me... then u can ask her to give u a compliment. then proceed to read her to palm with a serios face. And then basically talk bull shit. Like u r goin to rob a bank before u are 23. It will be biggest bank heist ever and u wil be in the top 10 wanted list. Stuff like that.. ( and play with her hand all the time.. she will be more comfortable with ur touch )

Hope this helps... So hav some stories and tricks ready always ready to use x

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Don,

Thanks for the response man.

I love the idea of the BS palm reading. I always dismissed palm reading cuz i cant actually do a real palm read. But I think just being able to come up with spontaneous bs would be in line with my personality. in other words, im so doing that.

So basically, stack routines, stories, games, whatever. got it.

Do you have any links for good routines that build kino at the same time (other than the palm reading)?

Hey man! Yea I def feel you on this one. Just tonight I had trouble with a girl. I started out great but then kinda lost her because I never really phase-shifted. The most important thing is to constantly be stepping your game up. Girls get easily bored so constantly keep them on their toes. If they get comfortable with you touching their hands, touch their back, if they get comfortable with that, move to their legs.

This is def something that takes a while to master and is my main sticking point right now that Im working on.

As far as filler conversation "The Cube" is def my favorite. I first heard about it when I read "The Game" just like everyone else lol. This is the best description I found for it and girls absolutely eat this shit up!

The main points are to make good eye contact and say everything with absolute confidence. It will seem like your totally winging your interpretation (which you somewhat are) but if you say it with enough confidence, theyll MAKE it fit into their lives. Confidence is key in the interpretation.

Check it out though!

P.S. I cant post the link since I'm still a newbie here so just look it up on google. The best interpretation I found was a doc on the website scribd.


Good luck though!

Aqua, thanks for the response man.

What do you mean phase-shift? like from A1, A2, etc? or is that the Kino Escalation stuff? Either way, makes sense to be constantly escalating. Ill try to keep it in mind at all times.

The kino stuff is fantastic. I sent the DiCarlo escalation ladder link to some non-pua friends because its just so f'in great.

I remember reading about The Cube in The Game as well. Ill google it or reread the game or something. I dont think many girls will have heard it where I am from, as I am not in a big city. I want to try Style's (i think its he came up with it atleast) Core Value routine (i think its called that.. haha), too.

I wont write about your other points other than I totally agree and thanks again.