Hey guys, whats goin on..first time poster, long time reader

I was at a restaurant last week with a few buddies (great social proof). We were boisterous, confident, and i was being checked out by one of the waitresses, probably a 9. When it was time to go, I confidently walked up to her and with a smile said, "Hey you're gunna be around this summer right?
" Yeah"
"Well we should go for a drink sometime"
(Flustered) "Ok sure"

She then proceeded to give me her number and I initiated a txt about 2 hours later. We txt'd back and forth about 5-6 times before she abruptly stopped to txt me. I sent her a txt two days later, "Whats up?" but nothing in response.

I guess what my question is, what could this mean? Also what are some better openers for a scenario like that. I've taken home 9's and 10's from the bar but have a tough time picking chicks up during the day. Any ideas? Thanks guys.

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Butterfly

1st. I would recomend never initiating another text saying "whats up?" Girls do this to talk to men, not vice versa. side note: "never reply with whats up with you" either.

2nd, On a pickup like yours, with no rapport just the attraction, from personal experience i would recommend setting a day two within text 2-3 of first contact
Be much more direct with a pickup like that. SHE DOESN"T KNOW WHO YOU ARE. SHE'sPROB SHY

She doesn't know you, just your a good looking guy she met while she was WORKING. she doesn't want to text you like a high school girl. She obviously wanted to meet you.

Try texting her saying your going out (or whatever) and invite her. Try again in a few weeks if no answer.

Appreciate it thanks. What's a good way to initate through texting then?

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Butterfly

if i were you, i'd say 'you still owe me that drink, meet me *location* at *time*?'

usually works for me, good luck man.

-teen

Great advice man!!