When to seek rapport????



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:51 pm 
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This has been a huge sticking point for me,i mean most Pua's advis u to not ask rapport seeking questions until the hb has "earned" it...so when exactly do u know that u can move towards questions like "where do u stay" or "how do u spend most of ur time these days" and also i have no friggin clue how to do a correct "takeaway" i tend to break rapport even b4 it has been established sometimes i guess im not experienced enough to calibrate as of yet but anyways all i want to know is when do i transition into rapport seeking stage...
e.g this one time i approached this HB and started some random small talk and when she started asking me questions like which branch are u in etc etc and tried to take the conversation further(this chiks in my college btw) i say i gtg great talkin to you......was that even a takeaway or just my "approach anxiety" taking control...either way this chik still smiles at me and gives me various IOI's when we cross paths..
So yeah that's the predicament im in now
btw if u guys can give me a few good rapport seeking questions that will really be helpful.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 2:15 pm 
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Hmmm,

not sure quite what your asking but Ill answer this one
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tried to take the conversation further(this chiks in my college btw) i say i gtg great talkin to you
thats not breaking rapport, thats ejecting to early...

Without knowing all the dynamics, it looks like you should have stuck with it... ran some more conversation, used a little Kino.. and at least grabbed her number before telling her you had to go. especially if she wanted to keep talking.

If your anxious to get out of a conversation set a false time constraint up front... then close out by saying you have to leave, but "you seem nice, im not sure of you yet though, give me your number and maybe we can continue this conversation later"

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