ok im meeting this girl and we are going to go to her friends house to cook for a bake sale for a school project...... no im not in the friend zone...... me and this girl always flirt between each other and big time kino last time we chilled she sent me made ioi's so i doubt its gonna be boring, her friend isn't rly that hot but hey the more the better

so guys got any advice that is helpful in my current situation?? or anything i should watch out for?

Thanks

read one of your last posts, well you are going to be there with another girl present so best to carry on flirting escalate kino a little more, your baking huh, can have a bit of fun with that, give har a cheeky slap on the ass, wink all that stuff...just be fun, smile, if you get a chance to isolate then id say maybe its time to k-close this girl if you havent already..

Dont think so much, your obviously doing well with this girl so dont stress yourself, just be the same guy..

You will be fine

Hahaha, I don't see anything that's terribly wrong.

But, you shouldn't be afraid of escalation. Try to stay in the moment by focusing on something... Whenever I do this I do fine. It's all I really need, besides the structure which I flirt by.

You could also try having a little warm-up by going out a little bit earlier and talking to people before-hand.

If you go with routines, you should make sure your mind is pretty clear - so don't screw it up by having a Rockstar or being drunk...

If you don't, and go natural like me, then you could rehearse beliefs and work on your inner game.

There's very little you really need to know... You should have a goal, yeah, but you probably don't know much more than any other person who gets results... Unless you're brand new.

The only reason they get more success is because they go out more, and actually practiced the skills. You seem like you know a lot, you know about kino and IOIs, which are community terms, so you probably know about like the entire process.

You don't need to plan the entire thing out, something's not going to go according to plan... Every single time I've tried to plan every detail out, it turned out completely different - the only time you'll have any power is in the moment, you can do things now that influence the future, but you'll have to do them now...


Here's a few more guidelines I tend to use:
Speak in statements instead of questions (Gambler Method)

Ask broad, thought-provoking questions - not yes or no questions

AFC Adam's Attraction Formula

Get her to invest in the conversation

Lots of eye contact - Eye contact is known to release a chemical known as PEA or phenyl ehthalimine or something like that... It's a love chemical, which also makes you feel something close to fear.

Know about closed and open body language. When she opens it up you're doing fine... When she's closed it's because she's either playing around with a neg, or you actually insulted her. So build some comfort... [edit:] Shit I also forgot to say that you might not be giving off the right vibe, or she's naturally introverted. Lol.

Kino Escalation. High-fives, high-five + hugs, hug + kisses, etc.

Various Kino. Hand on the small of her back, maybe even your pinky tucked into the back of her pants. Belly-to-belly. Pulling the bottom of her ass towards me to give her a tiny orgasm - Sinn could explain this better than I could.



Hope things go well,
Roxstar.






RS.

thanks guys this realy is helpful cant wait till tomorrow Nd im not completely new to pua have been doin it for like a month alrdy , and i love it .

So what are some ways that i can get them both to leave with me?
or should i jus stick to my girl cuz her friend never rly gave me any ioi's?

Hahaha, do you think you can handle both?

Alright, well you don't want them to feel like sluts... So if you're taking them back to your house to choke your snake, don't really tell them that... Just be confident in your decision. Being a leader, and being a little bit dominant are pretty key. You can listen to what they say, but you need to be able to make decisions without feeling too panicked.

You want to show respect. You can make your own little area to sleep in, you don't have to sleep in it, but that's just there to respect them... It also has the added benefit of fucking with their minds.

They'll be like, "Oh, he's not just trying to sleep with me... Wait... Why doesn't he want to sleep with me?" And stuff like that. You can also say that you don't sleep with girls on the first date, or something - while they notice you're not sleeping in the same bed as them.

Then you'll be on the topic of sex... I hope you realize this is a good thing to talk about Anyways, then if your flirting skills are up to par - you'll have sex.

But on the way to having actual sex (vagina+penis) you can insist a little bit on not breaking the 1st date rule. Give her oral, and when she's about to climax - stop. Then you repeat it. She'll probably be pretty pissed off now (in a good way)... Feel free to go wild.



Also, if this is already going to be in a house... You could have a sleepover. If its your house then you want to clean up your room, your bathroom needs to look awesome, and anything else that needs cleaning cleaned.

You could also just pull them to the bathroom.

A trick I learned from my friend is that you say youre going to take a shower. I dont completely remember this story, but he said he was going to do that - then she was really surprised. He went into his bedroom, and came out in nothing but a towel and said, ``Im going to go take a shower`` in a serious, and sexual way. She went and joined him in it. The girl was probably getting turned on, and he was leading - not being an alpha, he was giving her a choice. But he was still being a leader.




Lol,
Go get em tiger,
Roxstar

Wow, ok here's a great trick...

Start a food fight while your baking. Not full blown and trash the place, just maybe playfully toss some flour or something at her and her friend. Be sure to engage BOTH of them. That should be great fun for all im sure. Then, while you help clean up, tease them about how it was their fault. Be creative. Then, after the cooking is done, tell her you wanna go back to your place (is the logistics good tho? Are your parents gonna be around? Are hers? cause if hers arent then you might wanna actually stay there for this) and see if she wants to go with you. Then when you get there, tell her you need to take a shower since she started that food fight and made you all messy and tell her to wait in your room. When done, come in in just your towel and turn your back to her while looking for clothes to put on. Strong sexual innuendo without having to say a word there, and with luck she'll make a move. If not, then just ask her to turn around while you get dressed or something... unless she wants to watch of course.

At that point you're on your own, just be in the moment and take it from there.

Whipped cream + boobies = epic win.

'nuf said.

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