ok, so met this girl last week, took her out for a drink, (she doesnt drink and ordered coke) she took me home to her place and made me dinner, we had a cool night and i stayed over, kissing etc etc. Then during the week i text her and she was enthusiastic, we arranged to go to the zoo on sat and we did, i stayed over again, had sex multiple times, we slept in went for a walk in the afternoon to the park, she asked me to stay again, so i did, another night of the same, sex etc etc. so i got up in the morning around 10 am and left.

Text her that afternoon some random shit about what was on tv or something, got a response straight away so all good. Thing is today i am thinking well i shouldnt text her right....like i have been the one instigating all of this and i figure a should hang back now because i risk coming across as too keen or something...its been all day and no text, i am thinking well i should because maybe she needs to be led you know, but then another part of me is like nah man let her be and make her come to you, i actually like this girl, how do you think i should proceed from here?....should i text her if she doesnt text me tonight? if i dont hear from her should i text her tommorow? i tend to fuck things up at this point, i am kinda looking for answers from guys that are not in highschool or university, no offence....

Thanks

maybe wait a day or so. seems like you've been with her for about half of the last week, you may want to give her some space and if its going good (which it sounds like it is) than she might be calling you up instead.

yeah well i sorta couldnt help it and i messaged her anyway lol, said do you wanna catch up soon? she suggested the moonlight cinema on sat night, which is cool but yeh, you are totally right, now i will leave it for a day or so, sometimes i wonder what i am thinking lol