so ive given an opener what next how do i keep the ball rolling, with just general conversation ? and il know if she interested if she keeps asking quesitons ?

Don't go to general boring chit-chat!

For example yesterday after I opened a babe with opinion opener I went to "So are you guys best friends"-thing as she was with her friend. From there I just went into the ESP-gimmick and usually after that the girls are pretty excited and enjoy your company. From there you can move the set/use DHV stories/neg which will spark attraction and hopefully you'll get it right enough to k-close or #-close.

cheers , dude !

Ask "so how do you know each other." that should give you something to work off of.

You have to constantly calibrate and assess what stage you're at. If she's not attracted to you, make it so. If she's interested in you, make her earn your interest. The more she works for you the more she'll want you. Think about some of the accomplishments that you are most proud of. They're the ones that you really worked hard for and even though everyone else just looks at a trophy as a shelf piece, you can see the months it took to prepare to win it.

One line I use, "So what do you have going for you more than your looks?" This allows her to qualify herself to you, but it's even better when she starts this without you initiating it.

Open then Into Transition phase where you will run a routine or ask a question to work with.

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