How Should I proceed? Pt. 2



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 5:08 pm 
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Alright, so a different situation has come about with a seperate girl from my other topic. Backstory on this one:

So for my fraternity, I had to donate blood last semester (around November). Well long story short, it was my first time and I was pretty woozy while doing it, and this HB7 noticed while she was donating blood too. She kind of giggled and I said "Stop laughing at me! This is traumatic." and we talked for a little bit. She left, but I saw her that weekend at a bar and she approached me.

She says "Omg, do you remember me?" and me being the idiot I was (this is before I was into PUA culture and knew anything) I said "Uh... no?" We proceeded to talk and whatnot, and I got a number close and bounced. She told me to call her to set something up.

Another long story short, for the proceeding two weeks I tried calling/texting her about going to lunch/dinner/our college's football game (Keep in mind, SHE initiated every single text). Needless to say, she rejected every single invitation with some dumb excuse, so I figured she was a tease and didn't know how to deal with it, so ultimately dropped it.

Fastforward two weeks, our fraternity is throwing an enormous party for the end of the semester (I have to add, general consensus was it was the best party of the year 8) ). Anyway, the afternoon of the party, I was checking facebook. She messages me on it saying Hey! and I talk back to her even though we haven't talked for two weeks. Long story short, she said "I'm coming to your party tonight, wearing a sexy red dress and elf hat (christmas themed) and I really want to see you" I was like... what is wrong with this girl?

Again, I get struck with bad luck as she never even showed up to the party, but I had a great time anyway.

Now, fastforward again a month (winter break) and two weeks. Last night I went to the bars again, and low and behold, I pass her going to a seperate bar. She flags me down, gives me a kiss and hug and asks how I've been. I tell her I'm going into that bar in a bit and we part. Later that night, I go into siad bar, and she sees me and approaches. Here's how the convo went:

(Keep in mind, I had a lot of social proof flowing as I opened a few sets and they were talking to me as well as my best friends GF was hanging on my arm acting as a pivot lol, love that girl.)

HB7 approaches: HEY!
Adam: I'm mad at you.
HB7: omg why?
Adam: Because everytime I tried to set up something with you you flaked me, so therefore we are finished. (All of this is said with a smirk on my face and a sarcastic voice)
HB7: FINE! We're DONE! (also jokingly)
Adam: That's fine by me, what do you want to talk about?
HB7: Hmm, how was your semester?
Adam: Are you kidding? Don't ask me such boring questions.
HB7: (Literally taken aback with shock and staring at my eyes, she can tell I have changed)
Adam: You know what, forget questions, come with me.

I take her by the hand and lead her to the dance floor where we dance for a song. I then say I'm leaving to find my friends.

She says OK, but before I leave, grabs me, and whispers in my ear, CALL ME this time. And I whisper back Maybe PICK UP, and she smiles and I leave.

How in the world should I proceed with this, becuase I have the feeling she's going to be a tease again and flake me.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 5:47 pm 
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I hate to burst your bubble here bro, as I usually post how to get girls on
this forum...

I have dealt with many of these girls. And do you know what I found out?

These girls are better kept as FRIENDS. That's right people, I said FRIENDS!

Girls like this tend to have girl friends that are nothing like them. What I
mean by that is simply this...

The girl that is a "tease" always has girl friends that are nothing like her,
these other friends are the ones that you want to meet. Reason being is
these other girls are the ones where she learned her "flirting" skills from.
Also, these other girls are teases in a way, yet, they are the ones that will
sleep with a guy the first night they meet you if your game is tight.

I speak from experience on this one people. Heed my words as old-school
knowledge and experience.

NOTE: Make friends with this girl and ask to meet her other girl friends.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 11:28 pm 
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Interesting you say that, I didn't really think about it. The only thing is, she's easily the best looking one out of her friends who are all kind of wierdos. I'm kind of getting the feeling that this girl just does not know how to flirt at all, and here I thought I was the one with the issues showing flirtation. She will message me on facebook saying she promises to pick up the next time I call, but I'm iceing her out for a few days and then calling to set up lunch/dinner/whatever this week. I'll see how it goes.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:14 am 
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*New Update*

So I iced her since Thursday, and played a quick text game early today (Sunday) that I picked up from this site-forget who said it, but props to you.

Adam: Stop!
HB: Stop what? lol
Adam: Stop thinking about me and smiling =)
HB: I'm sorry I can't help it =)
Adam: I'm calling you later don't get too excited
HB: OK I will try and contain myself =)

Waited several hours. Then texted this.

Adam: Hey are you free to talk?
HB: I will be in a little bit my parents are here visiting but they are leaving soon =)

So she texts me back a few hours later saying hey i'm free.

I then call and make small talk, ask her how her parents are etc. Eventually ends in me setting up a lunch date for this week.

Should I take her off campus to a simple place like TGI Fridays or the food court on campus (Wendys, Panda Express, Sbarros, few sandwich places) or go to the dining hall which is free for both of us (though I'm not sure if she has meals for the week)?

I want this to come off as a "I'm interested in you, but not trying super hard to impress you" type thing.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:53 am 
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Heh she is flirting with you big time, she just wanted you to grow the balls and take the initiative finally, instead of it being her all the time. Pretty common behavior for an alpha female, really.

She approached you at the bar after you first met.
She initiated calls and sms with you for two weeks (you then try to invite her out but you are missing her point)
She invites herself to your party and gives you a highly sexual tease, and then flakes on you (certainly miffed you didnt invite her first to the dance, punishing your beta behavior, she thinks she is making it clear for you)
FINALLY you take the lead at the last bar, and you get a strong IOI as well as she spells it out for you, "Call me!"

So it was good you called her, and what do you get? Rewarded, she will now see you. Its not a bad thing really, she isnt playing you so much as trying to get you to act more alpha since that is her own value as well. Surprised she gave you so many chances, she must be pretty attracted to you.

I would keep it up, keep the lead, invite her places (dont ever ask, just invite), kino her, kiss her, fuck her. She sounds like she wants it, just lead. If she does flake on you, call her on her bad behavior and get her to make it up to you. I doubt she will flake, tho you never know.. you can probably expect some more shit tests to make sure you really are alpha enough, so dont lose your cool. Really seems to me she is hot for you.

As for the lunch date? Just go wherever you two are more likely to have fun, and where you have more social proof. It doesnt really matter that much, just keep her laughing and entertained.


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